Always ruin a good thing

[kiwigirl]

I found out that i guy i'd been talking to and have slept with recently, has found someone new to share both his life and now his home at the beginning of next year.

I have been in love with him since the day we met, although we met online and had swapped e-mails and texts prior to our first meeting. I was a bit nervious about meeting him, but he put me at my ease and went down on me (which i had never had done before) more than once during the weekend he stayed with me. I loved how he made me feel and the feel of his samll cock in me. Now the time difference and the distance wasn't too bad to begin with but after a while he decided that he didn't want a long distance relationship with me but that we would remain friends who had sex. I missed him and over the course of four months we swapped personal photos via mms, had phone sex and even talked dirty via text. but he wanted more.

i caught up with him recently and he said that he wouldn't be come to see me when i visited any more and then left to do some work and never came back, prefereing to drink with a mate of his than to spend time with me.

he went home and asked him to give hiim some space which i tried to do but i ended up e-mailing him on afternoon and that was when i found out that he was seeing someone and that if things went well, she would be moving into his house early next year. I told him that i was in love with him (i can almost hear you say "big mistake"). but not no real reponse from him.

last night i sent him a text telling that i was in love with him and that he was on my mind 24/7. i recieved an e-mail this morning saying that his girlfriend got the text and that he wanted me to give him some space. i replied by saying that i meant every word of what i said and that I missed him terribly, along wtih a couple of other things. he then replied by saying taht he no longer wanted to be in conctact with me. I swore to myself that i was going to not put up a fight but i did and i lost.

i love him terribly and miss him twice as much but i guess i will have to respect his wishes and leave him alone. i feel miserable and alone and to make matters worse I STILL LOVE HIM.....

[vagabondprince]

it doesn't seem like you're asking any question, but i'm going to respond to this post anyway.

It sounds like you are being a bit obsessive with this guy. Sometimes things really aren't meant to happen, like way long distant relationships. It also sounded like it was much less of a serious thing to him than it is for you. He didn't give you all that much of a chance to get attached, but it happened anyway. It sounds like he warned pretty much right up front that it couldn't be serious anyway. So unfortunately you only have yourself to blame for making that happen. Sorry to be too blunt, but I'm really an anti-fan of long distance relationships. Finding someone closer to home would eliminate a lot of the complication that this relationship became for you.

[EvilEvilKitten]

You are now obsessing over a guy who doesn't want you - how pathetic is that? Stop it immediately. Grow a spine, girl and start looking around for his replacement. Such mawkish behaviour only drives men away. when they look at you, they see a leech not a woman.

Harsh truth but that is what it is, kiddo.

[Newtolove]

Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten

You are now obsessing over a guy who doesn't want you - how pathetic is that? Stop it immediately. Grow a spine, girl and start looking around for his replacement. Such mawkish behaviour only drives men away. when they look at you, they see a leech not a woman.

Harsh truth but that is what it is, kiddo.

seconded move on

[bryrw06]

agreed - you tell a story in which he is very passive. the only way to go is to forget him.