try again?

[ripple65]

Hello - I'm new and I would really appreciate advice on this.
If a guy says there is a connection, attraction and feelings for a girl, is it possible to try again?

After 3 months of dating we had a misunderstanding about long-term intentions and have gone separate ways. I told him I’ve been dating others since as I felt he wasn’t acting like he was that into me. I suspect that in his mind he's now registered ‘all-or-nothing’ vibes from me when I just really enjoy being with him and I'd like that to continue to see how it goes - which is how he originally felt too.

As we live 150 miles apart I don't want to bring the subject up again over the phone.
We'll both be at a party in a couple of weeks and I wonder the best way to make it clear to him without being scary that I’d really rather be with him than any of the other guys I‘ve been dating. Also that I would welcome a more 'let's see what happens' attitude.

What do you think I should do? Or is it best to leave it to him to act or not as he feels?
Thankx for reading.

[EvilEvilKitten]

You need to sort out your motives here before you do anything.
You ditched him because he wasn't all that into you. Now you want him back but only on an 'I'm not all that into you" basis???

I'd say keep it simple: forget him and see more guys!

[Newtolove]

it depends on your feelings for one another if you want to retry - what you weren't even together just going out some - just talk to him or move on I must say sounds like some lack of comunication