won't let me climax

[wenzel]

So me and my gf have been together for four months now. We both enjoy sex quite a bit and I thoroughly enjoy going down on her. 98% of the time I can get her to climax from cunnilingus and she doesn't like it if I quick before she does. Now she only gives fellatio once in a blue moon (once every two wks or so) and refuses to do it for more than a few minutes. She doesn't want me to climax from oral because she feels she is left out even if I would return the favor. She also says that if I do climax we would have to wait 10-15 min for me to recooperate to have sex. Is it wrong for me to feel the need to have my gf "get me off" with oral alone? If not is there anyone who could give me some advice on changing her perspective on the subject? Thanks in advance

[unknown11]

heh my g/f wont even go down on m at all

[EvilEvilKitten]

Sure! Fair is fair and she gets what she gives! So you have a refractory period, BFD, cuddle, have a pillow fight, whatever while waiting.

The bs you guys will put up with amazes me! But if you don't stick up for yourself she'll lose all respect for you. This is why the 'bad boys' get the girls. Bad boys don't put up with this nonsense and neither should you.

[gentle pull of your hair]

Oh, bad kitty has got it nailed.

Try compromise, she give oral to your first, then while you are "resting" you give oral to her. By the time she has had her fix hopefully you are ready to go!

If she's not up for that, just yell out loud "NEXT" and thank her and show her the door.

[sexy_angel]

..or maybe just go for 69 and the both of you can enjoy it!

[wenzel]

Thanks for the advice everyone. I so far I haven't had the opportunity yet, but i'll let you know what happens. And we can't 69 cuz she says she can't concentrate/function when I go down on her. Anyhoo....thanks for the help

[bryrw06]

agreed with these guys - i would feel enormously guilty if i didn't return the favour as it were. i don't understand how girls feel they have the right to refuse to pleasure you - surely its something you do to show your love?! i enjoy giving my boyfriend head, its something i bizarrely like and i love the way i can make him feel (its a control thing )
just refuse to go down on her for a while...she'll soon come round