Need some advice to win that special someone!

[Marvelfanx]

Alright so im a new member to this site but i figured if there would be a place to go for some good advice this would be the place. So heres the deal. A couple of months back this girl started working with me. Now mind you, the first time i saw her all i could think of how amazing she looked. So the night she started working i worked my charm and from the first night we where really good friends. So anyway after a few nights of talking to each other online i find out she has a boyfriend. Well at that point my hopes and dreams were crushed. Then i find out that there not exactly doing so great. Aparently all he does is do drugs, screw up, and come back crying and appologiseing. So i finally let her know how i really felt about her and she was cool with it but claimed her and her bf worked alot of stuff out. About a day later they were fighting again. Now heres the question and i know im gonna sound like an ******* for asking but i want to know if anyone has any tips or techniques for stealing her away from her dumbass boyfriend. I really love this girl but she claims she loves her boyfriend. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. And dont post that im an jerk, ive already come to terms with that.

Thanks

[dancingdoc2]

Say out of their relationship problems.

If you wish to be her friend, then be that if it is her desire, also and then be available.

Do not get in the middle of this. No good will come of it if you interfere in what is their business. If and when she makes a decision to end the relationship, then you can approach her.

[the dude]

be there for emotional support if she needs it, and let her come to you. you can't force someone to like you so if she DOES come to you then things should be dandy cause you already like her. Thats pretty much how things worked for my current lady and I and things are amazing.

[I_need_advice]

Very simple. just find out where he lives, works ecetera. see if he has any family ecetera and if he has any fighting skills, if you find that out then you just simple have to go to the closest gunshop and purchase a gun, with bullets, find out what his week schedule is and find a qiute moment to end him then simple put his body in the trunk of ur car, go to a very silent spot operate him get the bullets out (i suggest you aim at his hart and shoot only once) well anyway once you've got that out clean it up and just put it in ur house, dump the body in a river. go home as if nothing happenend and try to have a coverup now next time you go to work, that girl is ALL yours.

Do you really love this girl?

[EvilEvilKitten]

Ignore the boyfriend. He's not at all important. Forget about him entirely. Do not ask her how it is going etc. What you do is let her know that you are sincerely and seriously interested in her. Then stand back. You want to be as different from her present boyfriend as is possible.

Infrequent lunches where you discuss work or what you have been doing, assuming it is fit for her to hear, are the topics you bring up. You want to make yourself sound like a decent active guy with an interesting life that you are willing to make her a part of. Yes, it has to be infrequent -you do not want to be her friend -the one whose shoulder she cries on - but her lover.

She has to 'step-up' to be with you. That is ditch her current guy for you. You will not accept anything less from her. If this means you rebuff her first advances, she's still seeing him, then so be it. Do not let her off easy.