He wants to video it.....

[blondie]

Sometimes when me and my boyfriend are about to have sex he talks about video-ing it on his phone. What is his fascination with this? I have not let him video it, what do you think, should I or not??

[jmprox]

do you trust him completely?

If you two break up, he'll have that video on his phone, to share with whomever he wants!

Some couples find it fun to video tape, just be sure you want a video of you having sex around, and make sure you trust him completely!

[Caitlain]

Just let us know when you break up so we can watch the sex videos on the Internet. ;-)

If he captures it on his phone, I can promise you it will be shown to other people. If you don't care about that (some people don't), then I see no reason to not do it.

[browneyedgirl]

I would NOT do this. First, you have to trust him 100%. You should also want to be videotaped. Relationships should involve sexual acts only when they are wanted by BOTH partners. If you don't actually want to be videotaped, don't do it. AND, if you decide to video DO NOT DO IT ON HIS PHONE!!!! Think of the people he could easily show it to without your knowledge. Think of the people he could easily send it to. Even if you trust him not to do this, what if his friends go through his phone without his knowledge? What if he loses his phone?

Bad idea, in my opinion... if you decide you want to do it, get a proper videocamera, and keep a copy of the tape.

[EvilEvilKitten]

NO. In fact: not only no but HELL NO!
Didn't you learn anything from Paris Hilton's boyfriend hawking their video all over the web???

[NizeGie]

Agree with everyone else:

1 - Only do it if you trust him 100%.

2 - Do not trust him 100%.

3 - Only do it if you don't care and are 100% sure you will never in the future care that it gets shown to his friends and posted on the Internet.

4 - Even if you don't think you care that it gets shown to his friends and posted on the Internet, you probably do and almost surely will at some point. If not, just throw in the towel and audition to be a porn star, as there's reasonably good money in it.

[Sirene]

Me & my ex took pics of each other on our phones, when we broke up we hated each other yet we still both deleted our pics.

He probs wants to video it so he can wank over it when you're not with him

[EvilEvilKitten]

Yeah Nize but it is an industry that's very hard on the women - in 2 or 3 years she's used up and thrown aside.

[Maya Minx]

my ex made a short video on his phone without me knowing till a long time after, as far as i know he hasnt shown anyone...but that doesnt mean he hasnt....i wouldnt do it if i were you

[SexTherapy]

I would never tape my girlfriend and I having sex, where would i keep it? If I got caught with it, I would be in for sex counseling or whatever, not to mention kicked out of house.