I need some advice, please help!

[LotusLiz]

I have known my best friend for two years. He has had a crush on my cousin who doesnt like him for about a year. He finally got the hint and is getting over her. I have had a crush on him for about three months now and three days ago he said he likes me too and he is getting over my cousin. We discussed taking our relationship to bf/gf but nothing was really decided. Now, three days later I have barely heard three words from him (over the net only) and he hasn't mentioned our talk at all. He doesnt call, doesnt plan to meet up even when I mentioned today was my day off work. Does this mean he regrets what he said, and still likes my cousin who yesterday just got back into town for thanksgiving? I dont know what to do. Im thinking of just telling him I know he isnt over her and lets just stay friends, but is there a second option? Please Help!

[EvilEvilKitten]

Chill. Down, girl. Relax. If he was interested - he'd be talking, dating etc. with you. Since he isn't doing any of those things - he's not interested. You'll only embarass him if you continue to interact with him. Let it, and him, go. Most problems females have with males is due to 'telling' him - usually it is too much.

People, this is exactly why I advocate being adult about about your sex life. This is angst. Don't do it.