Help From Female Members Pls

[fescue]

I am having a woman over to my place this evening for dinner. This is our third date and the last two dates (dinner and the museum) ended up back at her place having a chat and smoking a little. fun. Upon leaving saturday night, i asked her for a kiss and we sort of respectably pecked each other on the lips once then again with feeling but not intimately if you know what I mean. We have from the first date exchanged flirtatious comments like "wow, your legs just won't quit" or she saying "meet you there and bring those legs".

So, she is coming over, bringing the wine I am making the dinner. We are both in or mid forties and I want to know if it is acceptable to push the physical aspect a bit more. I have been out of the dating scene for many years and the last two women I dated would have had sex on date two or three but I was a bit more reserved. Now I want to rip this fine ladies clothes right off her. help.

[dancingdoc2]

I am curious just how many answers you will get.

I say go with the flow. Do not push; rather, let your availability show. If she wants more, act on her availability that will be shown to you. Otherwise, wait, get to know each other better and base your intimate relationship on something much more solid and in depth.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Okay mid 40's and this is the 4th date? Time to snuggle up with the wine on the sofa and snuggle her into the mood! I'd say go for it!

Good luck!

[fescue]

Thanks for your replies.

I agree Evil, I felt look we are not kids here....and we both know what we want. btw 3rd date.

Ok, so we had the dinner and much to my surprise, she was pretty assertive (which makes three women now) about her desire to be intimate. She even wondered aloud why I didn't try to "get a little" the other night at her place. We sat on the couch and WOW. It is 120 am and she just left and it was unbelievable. She is a very sexy and amorous lover and wow did we hit it off!! After the third round of sex I said to her, you know we could have dinner again, even tomorrow night and we just laughed. Seems both of us were acting like we were afraid another 8 months will pass without intimacy.

Just an FYI, thanks.....oh and I must add, she is the Hottest Woman and most slender and curvy I have ever been close to yummy!!

Fes

[Westles]

Well done pal, keep us informed of any future arrangements

[EvilEvilKitten]

Congratulations!
and long may you two continue the celebrations!!