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need help! again
I have posted on here before about the same girl. Basically she is the most shy person I have ever met. Only when she has had a few drinks will she actually talk to me. A few times I have thought to myself I should just give up, shes not really interested in me unless shes drunk. However, her roommates and friends have told me not to give up and that she really likes me... shes just really shy. If she comes to a party I'm at or even if its at my house she seems too scared to come up to me to say hi first, I always have to go up to her. We have been in a few situations where we have kissed and made out but then its like shes embarrased and will just burry her face in my shoulder or chest likes shes embarrased to look at me and eventually go to sleep. Everytime I see her its almost like the first time akwardness. Previously people on this forum have told me to give her lots and compliments and take it slow with her. I have tried this and when I compliment her it seems to just make her more embarrased. On top of that shes so into studying its almost weird. She'll study for 6 hours a day for a test that is almost a week away. This really keeps her from doing anything during the weekdays. Normally I would say this is just an excuse and she doesnt want to go out with me but I have found from many other people this is really how she is. If you would take a look at this girl she doesnt seem like she would be the shy and studying type.
Obviously I really like her otherwise I wouldnt go through all this every weekend for about the last month and a half. I don't know what else to do, any ideas?
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