too fast?

[HCO]

hi everyone
im new here
and i was just wondering if me and my gf are going too fast
were both 14 and we have been dating for a month and 3 weeks and slid into second base last night
and we've both never done anyhting else before
is that too soon?
thanks

[curly]

The base system has always confused me? Is second base you touching her breasts, her performing bj or hj? I think 14 is to young for sex, but I don't seen any reason to avoid foreplay.

[HCO]

ya 1st is kissing/making out
2nd is touching breasts/penis/vagina (but not like handjob or fingering)
3rd is oral/handjob/fingering
4th is sex

[Newtolove]

O cmon please what is this base system can't we just be plaoin here we're not in a convent

well i think that that is not too fast but it depends on the two of you, if you are happy why worry. i would only say do not go too fast on sex and wait there is plenty you can do that will be equally satisfying

[unknown11]

hmm wierd thing is iv been at second base b4 we were dating with my g/f and we were both virgins at the time(we were 2 weeks into it)