Being Played

[Casimir]

Does anyone know any clues to tell if you are being played, or if someone does care? I think this girl is playing me, but I can't be sure and don't want to just assume she is and end anything I could have going.

[unknown11]

if u think she is cheating on u then ask her upfont or work ur way into the subject btw how deep in r u in the relation

[Casimir]

Not in a relationship with her. I want to be in a relationship with her. We have slept together twice and now she said she just wants to be friends. Things she does just makes me feel she is toying with me to see how much I can stand.

Example:
She will call me up and talk to me, and ask if I want to take a bath with her, but I can't touch her.

She can't sleep in same bed with me because she knows what will happen if whe sleep in same bed.

She will ask me to come over late at night, but then when I say ok and get dressed, she will say never mind and say she would be sleeping before I get there, but then stay on the phone with me for another hour.

[Newtolove]

try ignoring her for a bit make her think you are not bothered either way and see what happens. perhaps she has had passed bad experiences and wants to be more sure

[Browser]

Talk to her. Relationships are mutual.

[Casimir]

Thanks for the advice will do a little of both I suppose.

[Browser]

Best of luck.