He doesn't want to have sex - why?

[Jessesgirl]

Yeah, my fiance (1) Is addicted to computer gaming(as silly as it sounds, he plays world of warcraft at least 12 hours a day) (2) Is not interested in sex with me(????? wtf i thought guys wanted it all the time????)

[Paraclaisian]

Ahhh! WOW has claimed another soul... It does that. I'm not sure of the cure, but when my fiance gets too caught up in gaming, I have to have an incredibly serious talk with him. He can just get sucked in! However beyond actually bringing up your concerns: seduction! I was having a very similar problem, so when I knew my fiance was going to be getting home soon I cleaned the place up, made it look really nice, dimmed the lights, put on an outfit I knew he loved, and essentially jumped him! It worked, too. Good Luck!

[Jessesgirl]

oh if i were finished!! im glad im not the only one. he never leaves the house or maybe i could pounce when he came home.sigh. im thinking that this isnt gonna go away with anything i can say or do.....

[demonbuttercup]

I have the same problem... but I am the girl and playing too much City of Heroes LMAO
I am not as bad as 12 hrs a day... I do work and sleep, I just play on the weekends mainly.
At least my b/f and I team together

[Luvs2plzU]

never tried gaming or anything like that..but heck..you come home,turn on the computer and get after the game....quite easy...fooling around and having sex...well there's all that foreplay...taking your partner's "feelings" in to consideration, touchy,feely stuff...all that talking and communicating that goes with it...seems like waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay too much "work"....LOL... pass me the URL to that gaming stuff please!! LOL

[dancingdoc2]

I don't even want to offer my two cents worth. What immaturity.

[Cleveland]

Addiction isn't a funny thing. Have the serious talk. Give him 10 days to clean up his act. If he hasn't, pack up and leave for good. It sounds like he won't even notice that you're gone.