girlfriends tighteness

[yohomie]

hi -my girlfriend and i have sex on a regular basis but these past two weeks- she, i guess..hasnt been in the mood. the other night we had sex and she didnt feel as tight as she normally does. i was wondering if she had been masterbating or something this past week while we werent having intercourse. usually after a week or 2 of not having sex she feels very tight. i was wondering if this could be because of her period or if there are other factors that could cause this, i dont mean to be paranoid but if she has been masterbating then i feel like im not doing something right because she had plenty of opportunities with me to have sex -
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[demonbuttercup]

People masturbate while in sexually fulfilling relationships... one doesn't always lend to the other.
Have you maturbated at all during those 2 weeks?

Sometimes you just need a quick 2-5 minutes "release" rather than the 30min to 2 hrs dedicated to having sex.
It just all depends, doesn't mean you aren't doing something right.

[dancingdoc2]

...and also, to expand upon what was just said, climaxes serve several functions.

The first, of course, is for reproduction
The second, is to express the love each person has for the other
The third, is for the pure and simple joy of it all
The fourth, is to relieve pent up stress and tension

Couples can have a very fulfilling relationship yet still have a need to achieve an orgasmic release from time to time independent of #1 and #2, above. That one or the other of you masturbates in between a love making session is completely normal given #4. Shucks, man, haven't you ever rushed to a public restroom one or more times when out and about over the years to gain a release of pent up stress. What about at home? Do you ever masturbate in bed before getting up or after retiring for the night? Numbers 3 and 4 have nothing in common with number two except the orgasm itself.

Women do not always involve their vaginas when masturbating, so, the question of looseness because of self stimulation is not proff of anything.

If she is not in the mood, then ask yourself why, then ask her? It could be chemical, distractions, trouble in River City, or any number of issues.

[nursefluffykins]

trouble in river city?

[tbryson2]

sometimes I feel like masturbating without involving my better 1/2. Nothing wrong with that.

But that is beside the point. Your original question, (I'm thinking), is "why is she looser now than she is "suppose" to be?"

Perhaps she's more relaxed? Perhaps she's not as horny? Perhaps our bodys change over time and then (hopefully ) go back?

Sounds to me like your taking it personally, or you don't "trust" her?

Just enjoy what you have. Breasts change too. Wait till you (she) have kids! Then remebering back, you will think she was "Tight" on her "loose" days.