10-09-2006, 06:53 PM
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Confused reationship - Help!!
Oh gosh where do I start? About 6 months ago I met this guy at a party, about 3 hours after meeting him, we decided to have a pash. Everyone at the party was trying to keep me away from him, the reason, I wasnt sure of. I got his number, and the next day found out he was 28 and hed slept with my aunty. I text him a few months later and ended up going to his house. We stayed up until 5am talking then went to bed. I prounced on him.( As you do) A few days later i turned 16 and began to see this guy from the party- Dave, most weekends. Really I would just go to his place, we'd drink, chat then have sex. He was really lovley to me, calling me gawgus all of the time, and always seamed interested in what i had to say. Time went on, and I started to develop feelings for him, we went on a few dates and he seamed like he wanted more from me. So i asked him where was this going a month or so ago. He said its casual sex and its not going anywhere. I have told him to tell me who he is sleeping with, which he always answers to " just you" which is a load of ****. Then he tells me this chick he has chemistry with is overseas and shes comming back to NZ for a few days , and staying with him. A few weeks before she arrived, he sent me a video message of himself in the shower. And when that girl came to stay, i got a text from him saying she found the video we didnt have sex and she wrote me a big i hate you note. looking foward to seeing you. Before that i hadnt seen him for about 4 weeks. Anyway, I'm really happy just having sex with him, but its getting to the point where he is just treating me with no respect, and i hate to say this but i still have tiny feelings for him. And to top it off he has knowen my uncles ex girlfriend for over 10 years has slept with her, knows all of her family, so do I. None of them have any idea what is going on between us. He will also be at my uncles ex's,daughters 21st this weekend, so will I, everyone there knows we have pashed, but no one has a clue we have been having sex for over 4 months. HELP!! What should I do? Give him the flick, or stay on for the ride ????
  Help! He told me he loved me and wants to move in with me! But we both where drunk. We FINALLY talked about having a relationship. Then 30mins later he was pashing his best friend who is a lesbian ! I really want this to work and not give up i know what i should do but ive been wanting to hear those words for so long!, but that is so wrong what he did. Advice needed !!!!!!!! Last edited by Play; 10-14-2006 at 11:24 PM.. Reason: My gosh 
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10-09-2006, 07:32 PM
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I may be completely inexperienced in the matter (being a virgin and all), but something tells me this situation will lead no where good in the long run. Sure, you might think the casual sex is great, but you said yourself that you've developed feelings for him, feelings which it seems he's made clear are not returned. That alone will only casue stress for you and maybe even a broken heart down the road. You also need to consider the possible ramifications if word of this relationship gets out to your uncle, which may then be shed upon the rest of your family. Weigh the pros and cons and make your decision accordingly.
My personal oppinion: Give him the "flick".
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10-10-2006, 09:38 PM
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Yes, well he is 29 now. And in New Zealand thats legal. But it dosent make it any better. Also I am not using protection with him. A part of me says hes just sleeping with me the other is SCREAMING bull****. Yes if my uncle found out things would get messy. hmm. Cheers you guys are making me think
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10-10-2006, 11:18 PM
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tell him to beat it and did I understand right that he is 28 and you 16 ? nothing against age differences but that sounds a bit odd to me you've had your little ride now tell him to beat it, I think he could be in trouble as if memory serves a 28 guy with a 16 girl could be big trouble for him who the hec does he think he is ?
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10-12-2006, 10:48 AM
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it being legal does not make it right and the fact that he had a girlfriend you knew about and you are having unprotected sex with him make you (alas) a fool and he a b@stard and that should have been red alert and sirens all over for you even though you are only 16 you know there are plenty of 16 year old boys out there willing to have sex and probably more apt to have truer feelings for you apart from being more willing to use protection I mean if sex is all you want (ok maybe not) but you are gar better off with a peer
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10-12-2006, 04:03 PM
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have to admit those age differances arnt good. have to aggree witht the others here. if theres no feelings, hes admitting that and hes that old id get well shot of him
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10-16-2006, 10:42 PM
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There is no way in hell I would date someone my age. It just dosent tickle my pickle. The youngest guy Ive slept with was 18. I agree with you all! But I just cant bring myself to do it. I know hes a barstard and Im a idiot for still talking to him. I just want to carry this on because I do have feelings for him and everytime I'm with him I just feel so mad that this cant go any where and I want to do all I can to trap this dude.
Crazy but true. I guess Ive brought this on myself.
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