Sexual psychology differences between males & females

[Sirene]

I need some links to sites that explain the sexual psychology differences between males & females. I need my girlfriend to understand how I feel about it, & I want to understand how she feels about it. But I need to fully understand my self too. Can anyone suggest anywhere that goes really in depth with this type of thing?

Thanks

[Luvs2plzU]

Originally Posted by Sirene

I need some links to sites that explain the sexual psychology differences between males & females. I need my girlfriend to understand how I feel about it, & I want to understand how she feels about it. But I need to fully understand my self too. Can anyone suggest anywhere that goes really in depth with this type of thing?

Thanks

Ahhhhhhhh go no further my little friend.... Women need a reason to have sex. Men just need a place

or

To make a woman happy....?


A man only needs to be:

1. a friend
2. a companion
3. a lover
4. a brother
5. a father
6. a master
7. a chef
8. an electrician
9. a carpenter
10. a plumber
11. a mechanic
12. a decorator
13. a stylist
14. a sexologist
15. a gynecologist
16. a psychologist
17. a pest exterminator
18. a psychiatrist
19. a healer
20. a good listener
21. an organizer
22. a good father
23. very clean
24. sympathetic
25. athletic
26. warm
27. attentive
28. gallant
29. intelligent
30. funny
31. creative
32. tender
33. strong
34. understanding
35. tolerant
36. prudent
37. ambitious
38. capable
39. courageous
40. determined
41. true
42. dependable
43. passionate

WITHOUT FORGETTING TO:

44. give her compliments regularly
45. love shopping
46. be honest
47. be very rich
48. not stress her out
49. not look at other girls


AND AT THE SAME TIME, YOU MUST ALSO:

50. give her lots of attention, but expect little yourself
51. give her lots of time, especially time for herself
52. give her lots of space, never worrying about where she goes


IT IS VERY IMPORTANT:

53. Never to forget:
* birthdays
* anniversaries
* arrangements she makes
.

To make the guy happy:

Just a PLACE to have sex

[Newtolove]

hey you changed it at least the one I read (I think it was in entertainment) gave about 4 things to make a guy happy.

Any way Sirene be a bit more specific what exactly are you refering to. A woman needs to feel loved and cared for men are a bit more automatic about sex

[moose_hd]

There's an excellent book on this topic called What Men Really Want by Dr. Herb Goldberg. I've read it from cover to cover and definitely recommend it to both women and men. As a guy, I really learned a lot about how women think about relationships and how men and women should emotionally fit together in the ideal case. It provides excellent descriptions about how men thing about relationships and how men and women easily misunderstand and alienate one another, and what can be done to stop it.

I don't really like the title of the book because it is really a comparative study of how men and women react in relationships as opposed to just preaching to women about how to 'cater' to men.

In order to avoid hurting her feelings perhaps you should each recommend a relationship book to each other, thus giving you a way to slip this book in. Btw, it's out of print but you can get used copies very cheaply at amazon and bn.com.

[moose_hd]

Originally Posted by Luvs2plzU

Women need a reason to have sex. Men just need a place

And when it comes to marriage, the reverse is true!