should i call the guy??

[SP2006]

hey,

hope ye can help me with a problem.
Theres a guy i really like and weve been on a couple of 'dates' - dont know if u can call em dates tho, cos his friends were there too. anyway he kept being real affectionate in front of his friends and later when we were alone, and he was saying he really likes me and wants me to himself etc etc.
But both times after dates he never calls, last time i called him but im not sure if i should this time. We fooled around after the last date - didnt have sex but pretty much everything and i kinda regret doin all that, cos now i think maybe he thinks im easy or something. He was nice the next morning and kissed me by but its a few days later and he hasnt called. Im so confused, should i call him - im worried after the other nite it'll make me seem desperate or something if i call him 1st??

Thanks, appreciate any help

[dancingdoc2]

Do not call. If he wants to be with you I guarantee he will call.

Do not be in such a rush to fool around with someone so soon--unless of course all you want is a good feeling right then. Better to keep your delights hidden and a bit out of reach until you know the guy better, longer, and know where the relationship is headed.

[Marine_Corps._08]

He might want you to call him first. Maybe he wants you to pursue him.