Need some relationship advise.

[neo06]

Let me start at the beginning,

I've met this girl where I work and shes wonderful, we have become friends and over the past month or so I've begun to notice things about her (I've worked there for 6months and been friends with her for most of that). The signs I should call them, shes flirtacious friendly doesn't mind getting close and she laughs alot at my jokes.

Now to analyse the above, this one would assume she likes me all the signs are there. Theres just one problem, she has a boyfriend. Funnily enough this guy works there too and they as far as I know have been together since before christmas.


However she isn't like what I described above to all guys there. Now because shes with someone else possibly long term I really dont want to jeapordise my relationship with her by diving in right now. But I just cant stop thinking about her, I've tried to date other women and just get on with others but none make me have the same feeling as I do when I'm around her.

I really don't know what to do next, if anything. Just find someone else? Or let her be aware of my feelings for her? I think I'm skipping in and out of the "friends" zone right now.

Help

[NizeGie]

You don't happen to work at Dunder Mifflin do you? In Scranton?

[dancingdoc2]

Here are some rules of the road concerning dating:

First, do not interfere in a pre-existing relationship.

Second, do not date co-workers.

The first should be obvious. Medling will not help your case. Either wait for the relationship to end, and/or simply continue to be casual friends with her and only that.

Dating coworkers is a bad idea because all too often relationship issues are taken to work with one or both individuals and not left at the front door of their houses. If and when you ever want to date a co-worker, and it looks like it will develop into something, one or the other of you should change jobs.

I really dont want to jeapordise my relationship with her by diving in right now.

Asked and answered.

Good luck.

[neo06]

dating co workers i agree can be problematic but it is however just a part time job im doing currently. And tbh I know you're right but just wanted an outside opinion other than my own personally.

To the person who replied first, no I don't.

So just go out and find someone else eh?

[NizeGie]

Okay.

That one went right by everyone, apparently.

[neo06]

Originally Posted by NizeGie

Okay.

That one went right by everyone, apparently.

What do you mean?

[Luvs2plzU]

if he would of said...binDer Dundat...I would have got it...

[david616098]

dating co workers is a problem especially when you break up its really hard.

Secondly if she is with someone and flirting with you i would consider that as a character flow yes she is firting with you and even if you get together what is to stop her from doing it to you a few months down the line with the next guy.