what are best topics to discuss when dating

[Neutral]

what are the best topics to discuss when dating, It seems that most topics are always the same with every girl i meet and after talking for hours and days, going to movies restaurants clubs etc. The dating starts to get dull and fade, How can i fix this problem?

[Browser]

This has been answered before. Look up "what to say."

[dancingdoc2]

Oh! I like your question. It gives me an opportunity to teach you and others about two important aspects of social interaction. The first is to be a great listener; the second is to ask question on topics she brings up. Doing these two things will get you through most dates and conversations with women.

So, knowing these two things, what is a guy to do? First, let her chit chat. Most women are chatty and will talk about all sorts of things. While she is talking, be a good and attentive listener. Second, interject a thought or two or ask a question somewhere in the stream of things and the conversation is revitalized.

When it comes to sharing information about yourself and your activities, do not be too quick to "spill the beans". Freely share bits and pieces of information and do not tell all all at once. Keep her interested and wanting to know more.

There you have it, that's pretty much it in a nutshell. If you do this your conversations with women should not all be the same, you may learn a thing or two about them and stuff in general, and you won't have to do a lot of talking; although, you do have to keep the ball rolling and be a participant.

[Brandye]

Find a woman with whom there is some common interest other than getting into one another's pants. Hobby, work, outside activities. I know of one very successful marriage between two thirty-somethings (both virgin at the time!)based upon Bon Sai. They lived thrirty miles apart and met on another continent.

And follow Doc's advice: shut up about yourself and listen to her babblings. There will be some keys in there.

[david616098]

When on a date you can pick any topic you both enjoy obviously if you pick something you both like and know hence you will enjoy usually you will find conversatuion just flows and before you know it you will be wondering how you ended up there .