Getting over ex-gf

[Vai123]

Well, first I'll say my girlfriend broke up with me for another guy at the beggining of the summer. We went out for like a year and a half. I really think I am in love with her. I am only 16 but its been a very long time and I havent gotten over her at all. We still talk on an every day basis. I always call her when Im upset about her which has been like every day for the past week... Its weird, I go through phases of missing her alot... I think that the problem is is that, I dont really do enough with friends and stuff. When we do hang out theres never chances of meeting new girls or anyhting...just like going over to someones house, playin poker, or sumthin. I play guitar ALOT. My life consited of roughly being with her, practicing the guitar, and hanging out with my group of friends occasionally. Through the last school year I guess I lost a lot of my friends. I just kinda became friends with alot of her friends, but now like I havent talked to any of them in a while and I just would feel too weird hanging out with her friends without my ex gf. I think that the only way i'll get over her is if I find another girl, but I dont really know many girls. Schools coming up but Im a really shy person, and I am not very good at meeting new people. Im starting to get really really mad over every little thing that happens between us. Like she said that she was going to go with one of my good friends to the movies just as friends and i got kinda jelous but then after I got off the phone with her i kinda got really mad and didnt think and like threw my phone and broke it... Idk. Any advice?

[Taddeo]

ok first take a breather. second, talk to your old friends and even her old friends if your were friends with them and just hangout.Third take a girl to the movies, and move slowly, act like you did the first time you ever went on a date. Start fresh. and lastly, keep talking to your ex and remained friends, but you must not get jealous or she wont want to know you any more.

No matter what you must relize she does not want to be with you anymore! accept it, and if and only if SHE changes her mind then think about if you really want to risk putting yourself through the pain you felt.

[WallyLlama]

You've completed a fairly thorough (and, it sounds, reasonably accurate) analysis of the situation. Now you just need to start acting consistent with it.

Stop calling her so much. Just stop.

You're a bit "addicted" to her companionship and, like all addictions, you've given her total power of you. She is influencing everything, including how you feel. Take back the power and give it to yourself.