is she seeing me as just a friend??

[ensekofti]

i 'll set the scene first...
theres a girl i met at a concert. i didnt talk 2 her at the beginning but she notticed i was looking at her! people pushed each other and in the whole mess, i found my self next 2 her.. at that moment they were playing a love song; i hugged her, and we stayed like that 4 half an hour (until the concert ended).. then i asked her name and asked her 2 give me her phone number.
3 days later, i text her and we chat 4 a while.. (i made a compliment or 2)
after that, for the next 5 days, she text me every day..
everything seems going well!! but..

here is the question:
she is 1 year older than me, she is a model, and i look like ****!!
having these in mind, why is she talking 2 me?? is she seeing me as just a friend?? or have i managed 2 make her ingnore all this and keep only the good things about me?? what can i do 2 find out whithout messing things up??

btw: she lives 1+1/2 hours away from me (thats one of the bigger distances in my country) and i dont drive (im only 16, and i have to be 18 to drive) so its kinda difficult 4 me 2 visit her often..

thank u 4 ur attention!! any opinion or advice accepted!

[Browser]

Try talking to her about it?
Many people prefer to be more subtle than that, but I find blunt honesty often works wonders.

[WallyLlama]

In a sense, the answers to your questions don't matter.

Most people don't meet and immediately decide what their relationship will be. When you found yourself sitting next to her you didn't decide you were going to marry her; you decided to hug her. That's how it works. You start out as friends and see where it goes. That's probably why she's talking to you, to see where you (and she herself) want it to go... In other words, she's apparently intererested - that's all that matters, really.

What you should do is let her see you as you are. Reply honestly and stop worrying about the differences and issues like distance. Enjoy who you (both) are and what you have as friends, don't worry yet about what you're going to call it and what it's going to be.

[ensekofti]

thanks!! i think i understand..