getting her back

[adviceplease?]

me and my girlfriend just broke up almost a week ago, it started out when she said she wanted to go on a "break", she said because she didnt want the responsibility of having a boyfriend, but shes been flirting with a lot of guys lately, later that night we got into an argument about it and she completely broke up with me, i tried pouring my heart out and i asked her back out and everything but everything i said just bounced off of her, please help me I love her and im miserable without her and i need her back, any advice would be greatly appreciated

[WallyLlama]

Unfortunately, people don't love you because you want them too.

You are going to have to learn to live with loss... not just of her, but as part of life. You can't always have what you want, and you will sometimes lose things (and people) you need. It hurts. But you heal.

[Khyron]

Originally Posted by adviceplease?

me and my girlfriend just broke up almost a week ago, it started out when she said she wanted to go on a "break", she said because she didnt want the responsibility of having a boyfriend...

She lied to you. Lick your wounds and find a new girl.

[dancingdoc2]

How did she lie to him?

That she flirts does not equate to wanting a break from the world, only this particular relationship. That she flirts with others is also no indication that she wants another relationship. Flirtation is just social interaction on a more personal level and not much more.

Teens should not be dating exclusively for some very important reasons. First and foremost is that by not entering into exclusive relationships, you eliminate the trauma of separation and breaking up, you eliminate the drama and axieties of close interactions and differences of opinions that you are not yet prepared to handle.

I recommend dating others and learning more about others and who is out there that might be more of a match for you. The more you date the better prepared you will be when the time comes to choose Ms. Right. Also, the more people you date, the more dates you will have and the more variety.

Teens usually enter into relationships that are short term and as interests change, insight broadens, new experiences are accumulated, we often find that the present company is no longer who we want to be with, so, this is just a part of maturing and growing up. These are facts and factors of young love and being young.

[TommyPinchaloaf]

Im not trying to be an *******, but she probably screwed around with another guy while you were with her.

Keep whats left of your dignity and never mention a relationship to her again, women don't want a needy guy. Find another girl, if she still has any feelings for you it will drive her insane.