Stages of Dating

[marlynshopgrl]

Ok I'm back in the dating scene after years of being in a very exclusive relationship. I started dating a man I met on Match, at first I just thought he wasn't looking for stable relationship so I pretty much took it with a grain of salt, while I dated others . He went away on Military leave and during his first week there, met another man (we'll call him B) while "A" was away, we seem to grow closer via weekly, then almost daily calls. Even though I was seeing "B". Well before "A" returned I did tell him about "B" and even though he was semi understanding ( ), I explained it seemed to me we were not in an exclusive relationship. Even though he did leave his motorcycle in my garage who knew it means that much o a man? Well to make a LONG story short, we are together, and he seems to be taking things really really slow with us.

My question is after 5 months (2.5 of which he was away) is it too much to wonder IF we are exclusive? I don’t want to seem desperate or harp on this subject, but I just wonder, since the last time he believed we were and I thought it was more casual, WHERE R WE NOW?

Thanks for any assistance with this VERY immature question. DATING?????

[Sugarplum]

Well.. where are we now? Thats a question only you and him can answer... Talk to him about it... Its normal you want to know where you are... But I dont think anyone other but the two of you can decide on that...