Successfully calling a woman?

[TommyPinchaloaf]

An attractive girl approached me at a bar as i was playing pool, and we talked for a while. She was sending all the right signals, touching my shoulder giving me pecks on the cheek, and eventually i offered my number, and she gave me hers. I call her the following friday and right off the bat she acts completely aloof, as if I was yesterdays news. I didn't approach her, or pester her for a phone number at the bar. Whats the deal with that? And could I have done anything different, or still do, to successfully meet her? I ended the conversation by saying I'd call her again some other time.

[WallyLlama]

Don't underestimate the power of alcohol.

Call her again, certainly... but understand that the exchange of numbers took place after she'd had a few drinks. The big question is whether or not she now regrets it and why.

Tell her you're going to play pool again, invite her to stop by.

[TommyPinchaloaf]

Thank for the advice wallyllama,
I'm still hoping more women will we respond to my thread for further insight, so ladies plese elighten me.

[Westles]

try a text instead mate

[ensekofti]

Originally Posted by TommyPinchaloaf

Thank for the advice wallyllama,
I'm still hoping more women will we respond to my thread for further insight, so ladies plese elighten me.

i have a good answer 4 u! i think.. but i am not a woman! will u accept it?? im sure u will..

first of all, as wally said "Don't underestimate the power of alcohol"
if this is the option, she may changed her mind the next day!

if not, u may called her too soon or too late.. calling her 3 days after that night would be perfect..

after changing her mind, its almost impossible 2 change it again!! i think the only way is texting her and saying that u r going to play pool again (as wally said) and tell her u would like her 2 pass by..

if she does, try not 2 mess things up!! have a drink together and when u leave dont menssion anything about meeting again.. after 2 days call her on the phone and chat 4 a while, again dont menssion anything about meeting her! some days after that call her tell her u want 2 go with her for a cap of coffee (dont chat, just ask her out!) after that, things will get in the right way..

im not sure u asked 4 so much information, but if theres any possibility u meet again, follow my words so u dont get things messed up again !!

[WallyLlama]

Let's be clear... I was not suggesting the use of alcohol to further the relationship. I was suggesting that she may have been more "friendly" because she'd been drinking and thought better of it when she sobered up.

Exactly what is done when is less important than attitude. Showing respect and being polite will go a lot further than whether or not you send a text message or make a phone call.