Doing the same things all the time good?

[truck21]

When im with a girl she seems to want to do the same things all the time and she gets upset when i ask to try something new or never did before.. What are some other ways to get her to want to try new things with her.

[RdUuBcBkER]

Well with the little bit of information presented i will try to help. I used to be the same with my boyfriend. If it is in bed where the same things are happening over and over with no real change in the rutine then part of the reason may be because she doesn't really know many different positions or techniques. If this is the case you could show her some of the things on this site. I find it to be very helpful.

If it is not in bed and it is just in general that she doesn't want to try new things then i don't really know how to help you.

you could also try to get her interested in trying new things by telling her that you have a surprise for her. I would tell her this a few days in advance so that the anticipation will help with the excitment of what you have instore for her.

you may also want to try talking to her to find out why she doesn't want to try new things because she may have had something happen to her in her childhood that has made her less suseptible to trying new things.

hope this helps you out some... if not then i am sorry but, i can't help you.