New relationship

[shaggydog12]

I got out of one relationship and got into another one a week later. I am tring to take this relartionship in a different way. In my last relationship we had sex like nine or ten times a day. The sex was good, but we were eitheir fighting or having sex. In my new relationship we have only had sex once or twice, I want to have sex with her, but I dont want to rush things. So, I have a couple questions. Question 1, what are some things I can do or say that will make her feel speaical in this relationship? Question 2, what are some things I can do to make her feel speaical? I am bad with relationships and I don't want to screw this up so I am takeing everything clammly, and she doesn't call when she says she is and I end up calling her back. So, my third question is should I call her back when she doesn't call me back or should I just see how long it takes to call me back, and is this a sign that something is wrong?

[MrKalar]

1. Tell her she is the best blower of the penis you ever know.
2. When you sex her up, make a chart that you rate her performance every time and put it on the wall. Always give her a 7 at least, on a scale of 1-10. Even if she was sucking ass and didnt swallow your load after a BJ and she deserves a 3, give her a 7. If it is pretty good even give her a 10. She'll end up thinking that she is so hot and a good lay and this will make her think she is special. Never tell her the true ratings unless you want to dump her and rub it in before you leave her.
3. Do not call back too much or you seem like a punk.

[hands_off_the_goods]

Ignore the post above...

Some things you can say: comment on her appearance... notice small things... if earrings then compliment them. Try to notice if she did something different with her hair or makeup. Tell her she's pretty or beautiful or gorgeous... stay away from cute because we take offence... we're not puppies.

Some things you can do: Buy her a gift once in awhile but not all the time. If you notice that she seems down for some reason, buy her something small like a rose or a bunch of flowers. Chocolate is usually always a winner. Give her a neck and shoulder massage. For sex.. take 30 min or so for foreplay thinking only of her pleasure in mind... trust me it pays off in the end.

As for the waiting for the calls.. If it bothers you let her know. As I've said in most of my posts about sex and relationships is that communication is key. Don't accuse her. Don't start out the conversation saying "you" it sounds dumb but use "I" sentances. Let her know that you get worried when you don't hear from her. If she makes the excuse that she doesn't have time... it's bull**** but don't say that. There is always time for a phone call even if it's just to say, "Hi I was thinking about you."

Hope this helps. If you have any more questions or comments about what I wrote feel free to talk.

[MrKalar]

wtf my points are valid dont tell him ignore at me let him choose on his own. Whats so wrong of my ideas?

[hands_off_the_goods]

If you want a girl to run screaming for you or kick you in the family jewels then go ahead and listen to him...

[MrKalar]

If he keeps ratings at a 7 or above girl aint got reason to be mad. What are you talking about?

[shaggydog12]

thanks hands_off_the_goods, i appericate it

[hands_off_the_goods]

Any time hon.

[Luvs2plzU]

Originally Posted by shaggydog12

I got out of one relationship and got into another one a week later. I am tring to take this relartionship in a different way. In my last relationship we had sex like nine or ten times a day. The sex was good, but we were eitheir fighting or having sex. In my new relationship we have only had sex once or twice, I want to have sex with her, but I dont want to rush things. So, I have a couple questions. Question 1, what are some things I can do or say that will make her feel speaical in this relationship? Question 2, what are some things I can do to make her feel speaical? I am bad with relationships and I don't want to screw this up so I am takeing everything clammly, and she doesn't call when she says she is and I end up calling her back. So, my third question is should I call her back when she doesn't call me back or should I just see how long it takes to call me back, and is this a sign that something is wrong?

Funny how you use the term "relationship"??...looks more like you are looking for a 'WARM WET SPOT" to put it several times a day??...relationship is a long nuturing process where you become best friends....if you have a best friend...think about it...did you become friends first?? or did you try having sex with him(assuming your best friend is a guy)...of course not....depending on your age.....gaining a best friend takes time and patience...hopefully the two of you would have similar interests and you would share in these...sex would be soooooooooooo far back on the list you wouldn't even be thinking it, well you would while you are kissing her goodnight...chances are you won't have the patience to develop what "she" likes...unless you have ZERO sexual expectations for about 4months...LOL..

[Explorer]

Originally Posted by Luvs2plzU

Funny how you use the term "relationship"??...looks more like you are looking for a 'WARM WET SPOT" to put it several times a day??...relationship is a long nuturing process where you become best friends....if you have a best friend...think about it...did you become friends first?? or did you try having sex with him(assuming your best friend is a guy)...of course not....depending on your age.....gaining a best friend takes time and patience...hopefully the two of you would have similar interests and you would share in these...sex would be soooooooooooo far back on the list you wouldn't even be thinking it, well you would while you are kissing her goodnight...chances are you won't have the patience to develop what "she" likes...unless you have ZERO sexual expectations for about 4months...LOL..

That is one way to do it, but if she puts you in the "friend" gategory, it could be very hard to get any further.

I prefer to have sex first (on the first date if possible) and then see where it leads to. If you have sex 10 times a day I can understand why you don't have any other content in your relationship. If you have sex once or twice a day you have time to get to know the other person. The point is, you let women you don't like go, and keep the one you do like and see if that developes in to love. That way you don't end up in celibacy for many months. There is no harm in having sex while "taking it slowly". And don't confuse love and frienship.

"Dating is for women who I'm already sleeping with." -Ross Jeffries