places to go

[jj_afroman]

Alright, so there's this girl and I like her a lot ... I'm pretty sure she feels the same way but how can you ever tell with women right...so I haven't ever really been in a relationsip or been on a date or even kissed a girl for that matter (I'm 16) and I was wondering, where is the best place to ask a girl out to ... last time I asked her out I said let's go to the movies and she wuz like "wow the movies ... thats creative" and we never ended up going cuz she didnt sound too enthusiastic. I really just wanna know where you think the most romantic place is to go for a first date...

[Tangency]

I sure hope she was being sarcastic in a joking way...and not a serious stuck up way. ....I mean, honestly, I can't imagine her expecting too much from you if you guys are just 16, unless she wants some "romantic walk on the beach"(which is romantic and cost effective) or dinner at a nice re$taurant..., ticket$ to theater$$, play$, concert$$$, (see what I'm getting at?)

I usually don't post, but if she said that in a serious tone, that offends me that she'd say that too you (lol....I'm a girl and I love movies damnit!)

I don't know what manner it was said, so I can't really judge her..but that just didn't sound right if she really was stand offish in that way, and if thats the case, I'd be wary. If she was really interested, doing anything with you would be fun/cool.... I mean, thats just me personally, and I don't have much experience myself...but if the guy I liked asked me out to /anything/ for the first couple of dates, I'd be happy to go. (Unless it was ONLY a movie everytime after that, /then/ I'd start to hint at something else. Or just simply say so.) But then...I'm not 16...but even looking back to when I was 16...I loved going to the movies, so I don't see the problem lol.

I mean come on! Superman Returns is out! and now soon Pirates?? How can she not be down with that?

But thats my 2cents....I'm sure some more knowledgeable people will give their advice haha.

[Robinsoa]

Movies is not great for a first date. Spending 2 hours of a 3 hour date watching a film in silence sucks. However is quite good if yoiu spend a whole staurday with her get to know each other. Hug, gently kiss and the movies are great for making out. But if you dont feel you can this soon that is fine. If she is worth worring about she will understand and work with you to improve your realationship skills.

And remember every realationship whether its months or days, good or bad is practise for when you find "true love"

[Fluffer]

Bowling is fun! And in case you want to double date or just have a few friends go along with you, bowling is EXCELLENT! You can usually play pool at a bowling alley, too, as long as the table isn't in the bar.

[Browser]

Try taking a walk through a nice, secluded park on a sunny day. There's a sort of vibrancy in that situation that I've found works subconsciously on many people.

[Newtolove]

hm i like the idea of a nice walk in a secluded park I spent a most enjoyyable morning walking around a lake with a girl.

[Browser]

Parks, and nature in general are lovely places to go with a boy or girl friend. If nothing else, you're less likely to get walked in on if you find a nice spot.

On the other hand, do be careful where you go. I got warned for being almost naked with my girlfriend (who was in a similar state), as the police drove by and saw us. Wasn't a fun five minutes.

[busta]

hey some good other ideas to go are like to a park or if she likes sports invite her to play the sport with her. like on one of my first dates i invited this girl to play b ball because i love b ball and i taught her how to play, plus since we were alone we could talk tons to each other without being intrupted. after playing we went to a park with like a play ground and we just sat around there or went on da swings (we r both 15) and after i walked her home. i think that was a good date and i think she did as well. so just find out what she likes and invite her to that, if you both like playing pool you could invite her to that. if you get her to the movies and there is a pool table around you should teach her how to play if you know how to. good luck and remember to talk to her tons.