How to ask?

[Angelust]

How would you ask a gilr if she wants to have sex without making her feel like were expecting her 2 say yes?

[jayman]

you dont ask that kinda would put her on the spot,i think you should try to get a realationship started and let the natural course of things happen as they will.if you do not want a relationship,then in my opinon you shouldnt have sex with her cause it may give her the wrong idea if she does and,that would hurt her,you know the saying hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.trust me i know

[Newtolove]

ok so the next question will be (sorry if I take over but am curios on this issue also) will a girl who wants to do it say I want it particularily if you are in a relationship

[Marko]

Originally Posted by Angelust

How would you ask a gilr if she wants to have sex without making her feel like were expecting her 2 say yes?

I always thought it would come naturally, with heaps of foreplay, but once you're nearly there, you would kind of have to ask if she wants it all the way, especially as in my case, shes not 15 yet...

[Sweetness12]

whoooah! not 15 yet? dont even try it.. i lost mine at 14 and it SUCKED! i should have waited till i was at least 16

[Marko]

Im 15, shes turning 15.

I think 15 is perfectly normal. Well, more normal than 12 or something

[Sweetness12]

well i guess if u think ur ready then go for it.. but 15? your barely hitting puberty good by then... But ok.. whatever floats your boat

[koncadonk]

whoa, wait a minute...

time to think about your life, do you have the means to support a kid (a job), are you ready to be a father if anything happens, is she on the pill, are you going to use protection, have you talked to your folks? There is a lot more to than just doing it, wait until your 17+ kid, use your hand and use your brain, i know i might sound like an a$$hole but im doing you a favor by saying this

[Newtolove]

quite agree
I'm 23 never done a thing and feel fine, I don't have that feeling to get my rocks off (and can handle that yes thats right handle - hand) am just waiting for that person that will make it really mean what it is or supoposed to be (soon I think just some time and distance involved), no I don't think I am missing out on anything and if this is your feeling then first use your head then your hand.

[Newtolove]

quite agree
I'm 23 never done a thing and feel fine, I don't have that feeling to get my rocks off (and can handle that yes thats right handle - hand) am just waiting for that person that will make it really mean what it is or supoposed to be (soon I think just some time and distance involved), no I don't think I am missing out on anything and if this is your feeling then first use your head then your hand.