Arguements?!?

[curious Al]

Hey, ok, well i was speaking to a friend and shes really good at giving advice. We was talking about our relationships and she said how she likes to play fight alot and having sex after arguments ( make-up sex) She also said that she couldnt be with a guy if they didnt argue or play fight (not exactly those words but in so many). Ok, the thing is, i never argue! I dont cause them either... I usually make jokes insted of arguing or something like that. My curious question is... do you think arguements and lil nags etc are needed in relationships? And does it make the relationship boring without them?

Thanks

[ILoveDaniel]

Whether they're needed or not in a relationship you will surely come across one at some point in time. I thought Daniel and I were never going to fight and we didn't until around 6-8 months into the relationship and we just started fighting over things. If you're thinking of hooking up with this girl then you'll most likely get into an argument at some point or another in the relationship so if you want to have sex/get together then maybe make something up. It won't be that hard.

[curious Al]

ok cool. im already with her btw ( my g/f) iv been with her for about 4months.

[ILoveDaniel]

Awesome, Congratulations. Have you two spoken of doing things yet or are you letting it run its course and do stuff when it's meant to happen?

[Sweetness12]

my b/f and I got into an argument and it lasted for a week and I have yet to see make-up sex

[curious Al]

yeh, we'll i was seeing her for a while before we became "offical" so we are having sex and things. But i guess it ran its course

[ILoveDaniel]

Alright! I hope things work out for the best.

[curious Al]

lol... just thought i would post... We had a little arguement...make up sex too...WOW! lol

[ua322]

Originally Posted by curious Al

Hey, ok, well i was speaking to a friend and shes really good at giving advice. We was talking about our relationships and she said how she likes to play fight alot and having sex after arguments ( make-up sex) She also said that she couldnt be with a guy if they didnt argue or play fight (not exactly those words but in so many). Ok, the thing is, i never argue! I dont cause them either... I usually make jokes insted of arguing or something like that. My curious question is... do you think arguements and lil nags etc are needed in relationships? And does it make the relationship boring without them?

Thanks

Anyone who "needs" fighting in a relationship is undoubtedly immature and high maintenance.

Make-up sex is exciting and moronic at the same time.

[Browser]

I am by nature an authoritive and aggressive person. I'll gladly have a debate on just about any subject... even when I don't know anything about it.

However: there is nothing I dislike more or find more painful than a real argument with a person I have feelings for. That doesn't mean I can't enjoy a good joke though. Play arguments I can distinguish from real ones, but I still don't enjoy them. Please, do yourself a favor and don't get into a relationship where you find yourself prone to arguments. In the long run those almost never work.