She hates her body.

[EltonJohn1254]

Im fairly certain that all girls have this problem, But is there any way I can get her to be comfterble with herself?

She thinks her boobs are to small (there small, but they fit her body size)
She completly hates her legs, she says there fat and to pale..(she cant tan..dunno why, just dosent do anything..and there not fat..nice legs really..just reeeally white)

She has seen me without a shirt on and she accually got jealous..(I dont work out but somtimes I work on roof's with my dad..carrying heavy things,hammering shingles, putting up eavestrough or siding..heavy things..lots of manpower, so I guess I have a good upper body)

I like her body just the way it is..and so do other guys >_<, but she wont even let me touch her legs or ass...she gets all red and makes me back off...

Any way for me to reassure her into liking herself?

[monkeystalker]

my gurl doesnt like her body but i joke about it more and more and now i get to touch more i let her touch me so i get to touch her but just make jokes about it

[orchid]

i was kind of that way with my boyfriend when we first started dating. just keep reassuring her that you like her body. and if she wants to change it to feel more comfortable with herself, she could try going to a tanning salon(i couldn't tan naturally either so i decided to try a "fake bake". as long as you don't do it too much you don't look fake, it will just give you color). the boob thing is a bit harder to change without surgery, but some people experience growth when they have higher levels of estrogen(like what's in birth control pills). but the most important thing is for you to say that you like her just as she is.

[curious Al]

well, iv heard 'look at my stomach...look at my hips... look at my thighs" since the start of time. All you can do is reasure her and say she looks great! she will probly say "no i dont" and grab what little she can, but to let her know you like the way shes made is all you can do

[kiwigirl]

I used to hate my body (and sometimes still do) as i've got "chunky" thighs, a couple of "spare tyres" around my middle and to quote an exlover "a hairy arse". The hairy arse i can do something about (thank goodness for waxing) but the rest i really have to work on. I have tried to lose weight but every time I do, I put it back on again and it's hard to lose again. But I have found someone who likes me for who I am NOT what I look like. I mean I don't sun worship if I can help it, so during summer I've got tanned feet, arms,neckline and lower legs and the rest of me is pale and if the guy doesn't like it, he doesn't deserve me. But then again my ex-lover liked me looking pale as he wanted me not tanned when I visited him last Easter and I wonder what his new girlfriend looks like.

[Brandye]

We women all have hangups about our bodies. She has some of the classics - breasts inadequate, hips and thighs too large, nose ....

What is different here is that she has such a low self-image that it is interfering with normal functioning. All you can do is be reassuring and supportive and brag about her. The hopes she gets over it. SOmetimes age accomplished that and sometimes all people go on hating their bodies forever.

[nuttocks]

I like small boobs. I prefer pale skin to tanned. My friend prefers girls who are overweight. He took his fiancee (now wife) to fast food places so that she'd gain weight.

There is nothing grosser than fake boobs.

[EltonJohn1254]

flat chested > fake boobs

(shes not flat)

[Newtolove]

if everybody went around choosing a mate solely by appearances there would be many lonely people in the world, i think carachter is much more important

[Robinsoa]

I too prefer Women with smaller breasts. I have had many a g/f where they are constantly putting them selves down. You must support her without souding false. You must belive that she is perfect for her to belive you. Because people can tell and it will make her worse if she can tell your lieng.