What should i do?

[Boris]

I have a problem, and i need some advice.

I have been going out with this girl for quite a few weeks, yet she wants us to stop seeing each other for a bit so that she can 'get her head around things'. Admittedly we have been very quick moving into an intimate relationship, but i get the feeling she might be pushing me away. I also got the news that she had kissed another boy, although she claims it was a mistake.

The thing is, I still love her...should I ignore what's happened, and carry on regardless and have this break, or should I end it? I'm finding it very hard to cope with.

Thanks

Boris

[Brandye]

A relationship of quite a few weeks hardly constitutes a real commitment. She wants a break; take a break.

[slade69]

Dump her sorry ass and get another girl and make her jealous!!! That's the best medicine my friend. Don't waste time on female specimens like that

[Boris]

OK, thanks for the advice, i'll try to do whatever is right, i still need to think about it.

[WallyLlama]

Yep, think. There are no black and white answers to relationship questions.

And, in a sense, no "rights" or "wrongs" -- you can control or predict another's behavior. One of the things that makes relationships hard is that you are (hopefully) trying to do the "right" thing together.

She thinks she needs a "break." Unless she's willing to discuss and negotiate what that means, you have little choice but to give it... and see how it feels... just remember that you have to do the "right" thing for yourself.

The hard part sometimes is figuring out what that is.