hiding "el erecion"

[johndoe05]

ok my question is one that im sure every guy would like an answer to, but never asks, and that is concerning erections in public or with non sex intimacy with a girl (kissing,cuddling, touching etc). a good deal of times i wil get one when intimate with a girl, and i dont know whether to be afraid of freaking her out when she happens to come in contact with that area...also, any mind tips to make them go away in undesirable situations...aka getting up unexpectedly after being with a bitl or in ublic where obviously few things can be more embarrassing than a bulge in your pants

[dancingdoc2]

> my question is one that im sure every guy would like an answer to, but never asks, and that is concerning erections in public

Well, as a member of the human race, we all have certain traits in common; one is that we all get spontaneous erections in our younger years; second, people do ask about them occasionally. My answer is when they occur to hide them under the fly of your trousers. You can discretely reach into a front pocket and move your penis around so that it is directly under the fly. The folds in your pants will help obscure the obvious.

> any mind tips to make them go away in undesirable situations.

None. They come and go at will seemingly having a mind of their own, although, the actual causes are sensory imputs like visual stimuli, smells, thoughts, etc. This is another fact of life that everyone suffers from and you can legitimately blame on "hormones".

> a good deal of times i wil get one when intimate with a girl, and i dont know whether to be afraid of freaking her out when she happens to come in contact with that area.

What makes you think she doesn't know you are getting them, getting them from what the two of you are doing; and, getting them specifically from what she is doing--with and for you. Don't think women are so naive. Get real.

If she happens upon an erection, do you think it is by accident or design that her hand simply roamed over the bulge in your pants? Dollars to donuts, she wants confirmation that what she has been doing is having an effect--the desired effect from her perspective. Also, she wants the process of discovery to affect you pleasantly.

You are talking about all this as if you are the only one who is permitted to be and feel sexual. I got news for you: women are very sexual creatures. That said, why not embrace their responses and enjoy what she is doing for you and you for her? You are interested in her responses, aren't you? Same goes for her with you; why would you think otherwise. Why do you think she is there with you making out? Here's a clue: for the same reason you are there with her!

Women mature earlier than men; so, whether she is the same age or up to a year younger, she is more mature than you at this point. This being the case, I believe you can safely bet she is way ahead of you with respect to sexuality. Granted, it is possible she has never masturbated or made out a lot if at all, but I am not talking about these aspects of her sexuality, only what is going on in the space between her ears.

You have an erection, you have a bulge in your pants, you are in public, then this is a good time to perhaps hide it by positioning your penis directly under the fly.

You have an erection, you have a bulge in your pants, you are in private with her--why hide it? Let her discover what she has caused and make the most of the discovery. Hint...hint....

John, good questions and concerns. I hope this is of help so that you can move onward. Do you have any other questions or concerns?

[Ryouko]

heh, yeah you can also where slightly larger shirts that will cover the fly area of the pants. then when you " tuck" it, as we call it, it will be virtualy gone.
when you are with a girl, ( intamate, not just getting a ride home with her) let your flag wave!
I too have no suggestions for makeing them go away. I ahve tried thinking of grandma, chocolate cake, golf, anything, but they all change in my mind to hot women... oh well. Just try not to panic. what is the worst that could happen?... alright fine... second worst. All guys get them.

[ageless_gypsy]

I'm always flattered when a guy gets an erection while we're being intimate. It means I'm doing my job right.

[johndoe05]

doc, thx for the response, i dont really have any questions except what i meant by "coming in contact" was like when standing up and making out with a girl and it happens and ur bodies are pressed against each other and she'll feel it against hers, when she is not specifically trying to feel that area...i imagine with yong girls my age, (teens) especially new to this field type ones, would be a little freaked out... and i know women obviously know about erections, but i think they think it only comes about during intense encounters

[redneckfiregoddess]

I'm not to far from the "new to the field" group. I remember the first erection I came into contact with. It was flatering not freak out material. I was surprised to find that guys get them from as little activity as making out. Its something everyone girl hopefully learns and you'll know right away if she is freaked by it... Now admittly if in public and my guy gets a hard on I;m just as embarassed as him. And hidding it become my number one priority!

[dancingdoc2]

Guys often steal a glance at a woman's cleavage (hopefuly following contact with her eyes); the uncouth among us stare as if fixated. Why is it tho, that everybody thinks the many eyes of passers by are going to glance noticeably downward and reconnoiter a person's fly and any folds the material may have? And, so what if they happen to, they don't know you from Adam.

I think all this interest and concern about hiding a naturally occuring erection is all about our inherent insecurities with regard to our sexuality. Many women do not seem to mind wearing tops in public that display and reveal most of what they possess with very little left for the imagination. I pitty the poor sales clerk or waiter who has to endure these displays hour in and hour out during his shift. I only wish that if women are intent upon wearing revealing tops that said attire be attractive and not slutty garb.

> And hidding it become my number one priority!

So, do you place your hand in his front pocket and reposition his endowment? (An inquisitive mind wants to know.)

I find these behaviors oddly curious.