I feel like a moron

[Belladonna]

But I have to ask, and I feel better asking virtual people this...yay for the internet...

I haven't had sex in an amazingly long time...almost 3 years...light years, it seems, when you watch Sex and the City every night!

I have been flirting with a younger man, trying to keep it light, plus he's on the rebound from a long relationship, and so I don't want to get serious anyway.

Lately, though, I've been feeling like, well, so what? I need some physical action...he's male, so his libido is pretty much a given

Anyway, any thoughts? Should I just throw caution to the wind and hit that? I don't want to do anything that might screw up a perfectly good friendship (we happen to work together).

Thanks for any insight,
Bella

[batman527]

I wish I had useful advice for you, but I don't think anyone really will. Here's my take on things... If you're just out to get some, that's fine IF the other person is ok with it. If that's the case, good to go. However, be careful that you're not leading your partner on, making him think that there might be an emotional connection there that doesn't really exist, just so you get some. Like I said, if he's cool with that, you're good to go.

As to screwing up your friendship, nobody can see the future. You'd have the best guess as to the after effects of an encounter, because you know the situation. Who knows... Sorry, that's about as helpful as I'm going to get here. Good luck.

[Brandye]

Working together and sleeping together is a recipe for real problems. Stuff at work screws up your sex life and ending a relationship can make it difficult to work together. If the relationship does not work out, will it affect your work life?

[blue_collar_joe]

Dating coworkers is not worth it. Too many problems arise from it. It's best to just stay friends and that's it. Just imagine having a relationship fight while working...it's a bad, bad thing.

[Jaysey]

I know how you feel about the sex--been there, done that, and it's rough, but...I agree w/ Joe and Brandye insofar as the work thing goes. You may find it helpful to read this article on dating a co-worker: "Is It Worth It?"

[katiebug]

Originally Posted by Brandye

Working together and sleeping together is a recipe for real problems.

Agreed.

I also wouldn't recommend risking the friendship over it. If you just want to sleep with someone, I think it'd be better to go pick up someone at a bar or a club to be honest. Someone that will be looking for the same things that you don't have an emotional connection with.

I have often thought of having a one night stand, but have never been single long enough to go through with it. But I imagine if I were looking for one, I'd prefer it be with someone I don't know well so that I have the option of leaving easily when it's over.

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