new positions again!

[Sweetness12]

Ok, so you guys have helped me with the whole being on top deal- i have a new position to worry about... Dawgie style...

well- heres the lowdown on the events thus far- i've been on top for a lil while, he's on top some too...well, those 2 positions are getting kinda boring, so one day he suggested trying something new, ya kno? well, me being who i am, i was hesitant to even ask what he meant....but when i did he told me...he wanted me to try Doggie style...and i kinda flushed out and turned a weird shade of red and didnt say much.... He's got more experience than me...he's been with a few girls before me, and i was only with one guy before this one....and with the other guy, he was on top b/c we were both virgins and we kind of, i guess you could say took each others virginity? Well, my current boyfriend has done it every which way and wants me to try new things. well, what do i do during this new position? in the other 2 i can put my hands on him, usually anywhere i want....now what do i do? Is this like a submissive position?

help!!

Rachel

[Luvs2plzU]

http://www.sexinfo101.com/sp_doggystyle.shtml

[dancingdoc2]

> my current boyfriend has done it every which way and wants me to try new things.

"Variety is the spice of life." Keep exploring and trying new things. Doing so will help to keep your love life from becoming boring.

> Is this like a submissive position?

Being submissive is a state of mind. If you feel submissive then the position can be that for you. If you think of the position as with any other--what the two of you do together as a team, then your participation will be an active roll, particularly if you mirror his stroking. If you think of the position as passive for you, then it can be either submissive--or, it can be one of simply being less active where he does most of the stroking while you are more accommodating, although no less enthusiastic or interested.

Cutting to the chase: the position is whatever you want it to be. Enjoy!

[Brandye]

I have never particularly desired doggie-style, do my best to avoid it and have never figured out what to do except sstay on all fours and let him have his way. As a variant, lying with a very large pillow under the hips (bottoms-up!) is better than the traditional doggie-style. Still not much for the woman to do.

[Sweetness12]

K thanks yall

[2hot4him]

Originally Posted by Brandye

I have never particularly desired doggie-style, do my best to avoid it and have never figured out what to do except sstay on all fours and let him have his way. As a variant, lying with a very large pillow under the hips (bottoms-up!) is better than the traditional doggie-style. Still not much for the woman to do.

Not quite as true-you can rock back and forth, and reach underneath and play with his balls (if he is not too sensitive). This is my favorite position, as well as my husband's. Unfortunately, most men don't last as long in this position....

You can vary the position of your hips by swaying your back more or less...he can lean more on your back (if he is taller) or hold onto your hips, or reach around and stimulate your clitoris...

Def go for a pile of pillows unless you are in great physical shape!!!

[Lass]

Well, there's not much you can do. I mean, all you do is just lay there on all fours and let him do whatever he wants. I wouldn't say it's a submissive postion, although you could look at it that way...my guy likes it because he's an ass man and he likes the postition because he can see it very well. That and I think it gives him a sense of control I suppose.....it's not my favorite position but I like it, and it stimulates me a lot.

I will say the bottom's up way is a good way to start if you're hesitant about the whole matter.

[Maribelle]

Bottoms-up can be quite fun ... it's actually easier for me to fantasize that way & so long as my feet are on the floor with hands on bed or couch then I have a lot of control over my hips (Elbows & knees bent on all fours does put a lot of pressure on the hips & is less fun for me, though)

[ua322]

Originally Posted by Sweetness12

well, what do i do during this new position?

Bend over.

That's about it.

[ua322]

Originally Posted by Lass

Well, there's not much you can do. I mean, all you do is just lay there on all fours and let him do whatever he wants. I wouldn't say it's a submissive postion, although you could look at it that way...my guy likes it because he's an ass man and he likes the postition because he can see it very well. That and I think it gives him a sense of control I suppose.....it's not my favorite position but I like it, and it stimulates me a lot.

I will say the bottom's up way is a good way to start if you're hesitant about the whole matter.

When I met my wife, she was far more experienced than I was. Within a couple weeks of having sex, she suggested we do doggie-style. Apparently, her previous BF had an affinity for that position, so she became conditioned to it.

I know a lot of women don't like the "animalistic" aspect of it, but my wife has never had a problem with it. Honestly, it's probably my favorite position although it's admittedly not very intimate.