Should i go for it?

[blooms]

k so i've been datin this girl since the beginning of march. We make out and everything but she's self consious about her boobs so i haven't tried. When do i no the right time to "take it a little bit further" and let her be more comfortable wit her body?

[Talie]

Do u know exactly what she is worried about? Maybe talk 2 her about it and then just take it slow a bit at a time etc. xx

[blooms]

ya she's just self conscious about her breasts because i'm not going to lie, there not the biggest things in the world at all

[Talie]

Does it bother u that they are not big? have u reassured her? I hated it wen i was younger as i had small boobs and always worried wat my bf thought. Even now im older and they have got a lil bigger i still worry with new men. Its not an abnormal thing for a woman to worry about her body. Just try help her relax, see what happens take it slow and talk 2 eachother and stop if she wants u 2.

[blooms]

no i don't mind that she has small boobs..i haven talked to her about it cuz i'm nervous im gonna piss her off and i don't know how to approach it wit bein respectful and witout gettin her annoyed or upset

[Talie]

Just tell her u like her 4 herself and your more then happy with her body. Then ask her mayb if there is anything that wld make her feel less insecure eg under a blanket or lights dimmed or off....

[blooms]

like i think she's jus afraid i won't like them or something..i also don't wanna make it like "o man i NEED to touch them and thats the only reason i'm datin u is cause your hot"...i just want her to be comfortable with me doing it before i actually want to. also when that happens is there any good tips on how to make it a really enjoyable experience for her?

[iamawesum69420]

The best thing to do to get her to feel better about her boobs and therefore be more comfortable with showing them to you would be to compliment them. Let her know that you find them desirable and attractive. You just have to know the difference between a good compliment and a bad compliment. Since this a sensitive subject words with good intentions could be taken the wrong way so say something like, "Your boobs look great in that shirt" and not something like "I don't think they look that small."

[blooms]

k gotchya...now wut r some tips on what to do once my hands are on them so that she will remember it for a LONG time and so she gets aroused and enjoys it?

[Talie]

B gente 2 start, tease and start slow. play with nipples last and see what happens.see what she likes and the wrk on thatxx Easier with specific questions 2 explain hun xx