first date

[alonso_anarchy]

ok so here's the deal.
im 14, and im going in my first real date, the porblem is i don't now this girl in person. i was introduced to her by a friend wich gave me her email, ive chated with her through msn messenger and after a couple of conversations i realized we have a lot in common(she's also pretty)so i invited her to watch a movie.
the problem is have never had dates before, i don't know if going to watch a movie is a good first date, of what to say or to do, i really i don't know annythig , could you give me any advice? i would apreciate any kinds of help and advice(from girls or dudes). please if you had being in a similar situation you'll know how it feels, please help.
thanx

[IndianaEMTlady]

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[Brandye]

What news outlet reported this momentous event?

[batman527]

I think I read about this in the NY Times, it was on page Z-42.

[Luvs2plzU]

I think the actual news story was something about winning a spelling bee...

[Ryouko]

yeah dude, movies suck, you can't even say small things during the movie because they are so damn loud. but since your fourteen, i guess it is kind of hard to be alone. sorry don't have any advice for you

[SCAR]

you could try feeding the ducks in the park sounds a little corney i know but grab a a bag of bread and find a quiet spot, it gives u the chance to be alone and talk a lot it could turn out to be really romantic

[Ryouko]

damn, I gotta try that, it sounds like it would be cool, but then again, I would need a pond, and a good way of asking

[batman527]

Hell, don't ask her, suprise her. Just tell her you're going out, and then pull out a loaf of bread and walk her to the park. She'll probably love it... Girls are so easy to please sometimes...

[champloo]

that might be a good idea. and then, after words, walk around and find one of those late night ice cream stands and buy yourselves ice cream.

girls are easy to please at the moment (im 14 too), and maybe be mister suave and buy a rose to give her when you pick her up. she might like that

i dont reccomend a movie as a first date, simply because of what everyone else says. its too dark to check each other out (everything looks a little different in person, so thats not good), its also a movie, and you go to a movie theatre to see that, so talking isnt good because it interrupts the movie and it may bug people around you also trying to watch. now, if its a second date (if she and you plan on a second), then try a scary movie or something, so then she can grab you during those extra-freaky moments

i wish you the best of luck on your first date, have a blast!