Masturbation >.<

[emyann]

I and my (I can't describe it in words!!) boyfriend of over 7 months now (we have known each other for longer), have never had sex, and won't be having sex for a long while. Instead of worrying about pregnancy and STDs we masturbate together, and it is the greatest thing in the world, and I feel so close to him when we do.

However, I normally can always get myself to climax either through stimulating my G-Spot or Clit, and very easily. But when it starts to get closer to my period, I begin to 'loose' my orgasm. It is kind of weird. I start to masturbate and then I can't bring myself to orgasm. Often, after this I get frustrated and cranky, like my body still wants to keep going but I can't. I am not sure if I really 'can't' get my orgasm or if I did but I just didn't feel it at all.

I just want to ask if this is a known problem among other fellow masturbators (female, lol), and if there is a way I can still reach climax during these times or if it is just something I can't prevent.

[Newtolove]

well I know this will not be of much help just a side note, but me a male have had the same experiences. I am afraid that you must examine how you feel cat the time and try and work it out perhaps try and talk with your bf about it

[Maribelle]

I don't know, I've never been able to bring myself to orgasm *SIGH*