STUCK! please help

[babycakes]

ok sooo.. i have a wonderfull boyfriend for the last 8 months or so.. he lives in ny and im in jersey.. we only get to see each other once inna few months!.. hes working 2 jobs to get his car and come see me.. meanwhile.. i met a guy at a party a while ago.. we started talking and now he likes me alott (and shows it) he tells me like every day how much he likes me and wat he would do to have me and so on and we happen to bump into each other all the time.. and now i kinda got feelings for him but i feel soo guilty for liking him back. we've become really good friends and he even kissed me .. not makeout jus tap but i moved away from guilt.. wat im so confused about is am i doing something wrong? i cant break up wit my bf just kuz i dont see him enough.. i mean i can but hes doing everythinggg in his power to see me and then this guy here.. respects that i have a bf but says he simply cant 'forget bout me'.. i feel like ima player wen im really not that kind of a person.. wat do i doo.. does any1 understand wat im tryin to say

[Sweetness12]

I would have to say go with the guy that is closer to you.. long distance doesnt usually work out, plus you dont know what the other guy in NY is doing behind ur back, ya kno?

[pozzolane]

Originally Posted by Sweetness12

I would have to say go with the guy that is closer to you.. long distance doesnt usually work out, plus you dont know what the other guy in NY is doing behind ur back, ya kno?

I don't agree with this. I'm not too sure exactly what to tell you. But I don't think you should develope an attitude of "he's possibly cheating on me anyways so I might as well dump him"

I have a couple of questions:

- Could this be a case of the "grass is greener"?

which leads to

-If your current boyfriend was close as well would you even be tempted by this new guy?

Remember to always follow your heart. But let your head do a little navigating.

[babycakes]

thanks for the advice :]