Sexually Conservative Girlfriend, advice needed

[TheCzar]

I have an issue, my girlfriend of six months and I are both 19. She is my first sexual partner and I am her second (she had a long term boyfriend during high school). We started having sex over the winter after we had been dating about 2 months. Everything has been going pretty well with that (I'd like to think I'm doing well for my limited practice, I can usually get her to finish at least once if not twice before I finish myself) except for the fact that she is totally unwilling to try anything new. She had dated her ex for 2 years and had started having sex about a year into their relationship. But even with her being more experienced than I am, she's only ever tried two positions (basic missionary and her on top) and refuses to try ANYTHING new. She also has never given oral sex and isn't willing to try that either. Is there anything I can do to get her to open up and try some new alignments here? I haven't been having sex long enough to get really bored of the basics, but if I'm going to be in a long term relationship with her this could eventually be an issue.

Any help will be greatly appreciated

[Talie]

You can't force someone to do something they dnt want 2 do. Have u spoken 2 her about it? Mayb she is scared and doesn't know how 2 do different stuff in bed or mayb there is another reason. Just be patient u never know what the future brings but i would talk 2 her. xx

[champloo]

i agree with talie.

also, some ladies find oral disgusting. she might be one.

ive also heard about where doggy style, or any other position where the girl cant see their partner, is something some girls dont want because they cant see them.

now, i dont know if thats true, ive only read it from another site thing.

if you havent, try asking her and talking to her about it. it seems to be the best method.

[ShadesRuda]

Does it have to be sexual? Ever thought about just taking a bath or shower together? Some girls find that fullfilling on an emotional level, to know that you're willing to be, not necessarily "girlie", but meet her on a soft intimacy level.

But yeah, talk to her first.

If I might suggest something else, if you two do something relaxing (watch a movie on the floor), or some time when you're laying in bed facing each other, I love it when my guy talks to me in a soothing voice and runs his hand over my skin. It makes me feel like he's connected to me, this is a good time to try doing something on your sides.
Another variation of that is to introduce the idea when you're in missionary and move on to your sides.

It's not entirely "new" but it is slightly different. Maybe with the introduction to something like that (by that I mean, a sensual and intimate position like that is a more female-friendly one), she might open up to the idea of trying more things like that.