Some help me

[Drummer_dude]

How do i ask a girl out if i know she likes but she has already got a boyfriend.I dont want to say will you go out with me because that sounds cheesy.


Please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[The1stTriSexual]

Just curious, would someone asking your gf out bother you?

[LittleFury]

If a girl already got a bf, you do NOT ask her out. Even if she likes you. She needs to break up with the bf first. It's plain and simple

[pozzolane]

(chuckles) This is something I'm good at. I have respect for the fact that girls have boyfriends. However, it's up to them to decide who they want to "date". If simply letting the girl know your interested in a shot with her once she breaks up with her boyfriend (which is almost exactly what I've said to women myself) jeopardizes her relationship with her current boyfriend, then they weren't right for each other anyways. So tell her you like her even if she is seeing someone else. It's not like you're trying to end a marriage.

[Lackadaisical]

Hahaha....this is what a friend of mine is going trough...i always say to let your intentions be known, and let her decide whom she desires more.

[Newtolove]

well let her know you like her but asking her out knowing she is with someone else may not be very tactful. if she is interested she'll possibly look you up.

[champloo]

yes.

but i'd respect the guy she is going out with by not making a move on her.

just show your cards respectfully so she can see what to do with hers. you dont want to make her throw away a full house if she thinks you have better.

[batman527]

Originally Posted by champloo

yes.

but i'd respect the guy she is going out with by not making a move on her.

just show your cards respectfully so she can see what to do with hers. you dont want to make her throw away a full house if she thinks you have better.

Agreed. Do you really want to be going out with a girl that you've "stolen" from another guy? Have the respect for her and for him to not interfere with their relationship. She'll know that you're interested, and you know that she's interested. Pushing her to break up with him can very easily damage the relationship you want to have with her, because as soon as you have the slightest bit of trouble, she's going to think to herself, "I never should have dumped John for this loser..." or something along those lines.

[baseballcatchinglegend]

if hes 6'4 & built like a brick out house, let it go. only joking.

i went through this a few weeks ago. i had been going out with this girl for 8 months but had really started liking someone in my guild at school. we both admitted that we liked each over but we played/playing things along. we're not together but things are for the better. it made me realise i didnt really love my gf and things are better off. making your feelings known is for the best. like what was said earlier, if it causes her questions in her head she wasnt meant to be with her bf. just let her know nd play things by ear

[champloo]

wow.

funny how it made you realize how you felt about your gf..