Male masturbation and relationships

[emtjeanine]

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[southern_guy]

what does it matter if he jacks off? as long as he can perform when you two want to have sex, it should be fine. do you see his jacking off as cheating? i married and still jack off, and it has never prevented me from a romp in the hay. it's healthy to do that.

[Luvs2plzU]

Originally Posted by emtjeanine

Me and my boyfriend have a very active sex life. I prefer he not masturbate at all. He says he doesn't. But I've been reading several articles where the guy is masturbating but the other half doesn't know. Maybe I got a honest man? Maybe some men really don't care to masturbate and wait for their other half. Should I believe him?

ROFLMAO....99% of men masturbate and the other 1% lie about it ***disclaimer here...I don't****

[dancingdoc2]

Please read the thread "is masturbation bad???" under the heading Pleasing Her.

In particular, please read my reply #5. I address this very issue of women not wanting their partners to masturbate while in a relationship.

[Lackadaisical]

Why don't you want him to masturbate? What's wrong with him satifying himself when you're not around...releasing stress adn tension that way is important.

[ShadesRuda]

You shouldn't feel like masturbation is a threat to you or your relationship with him. It's time for himself and something he can do on his own. It's likely he's been doing it YEARS before you two got together and asking him to stop now would be like asking him to stop anything he enjoys as a hobby.

My boyfriend told me when we started dating that he wasn't going to masturbate anymore because he felt like he'd be cheating on me, but with my no sex rule he'd be aroused all the time without any kind of release. I have never had a problem with it because I always saw it as a "guy thing." It is to him, what our need for makeup is to us, or shoes, only less expensive.

[dancingdoc2]

> but with my no sex rule he'd be aroused all the time without any kind of release. I have never had a problem with it because I always saw it as a "guy thing." It is to him, what our need for makeup is to us, or shoes, only less expensive.

An interesting analogy. Actually, I like the comparison. Very creative thinking, that. May I quote you?

[vagabondprince]

Originally Posted by ShadesRuda

It is to him, what our need for makeup is to us, or shoes, only less expensive.

it depends on the erotic material he uses to arouse himself during masturbation. some of those porn sites out there are ridiculously expensive

[ShadesRuda]

Originally Posted by dancingdoc2

An interesting analogy. Actually, I like the comparison. Very creative thinking, that. May I quote you?

Be my guest

[moose_hd]

Originally Posted by vagabondprince

it depends on the erotic material he uses to arouse himself during masturbation. some of those porn sites out there are ridiculously expensive

Lol, the internet has an unlimited supply of free and high quality porn. Just gotta know where to get it.