Fwb...

[IndianaEMTlady]

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[ORANGE]

my two cents

fwb is great if you can trust him not to sleep with anyone else or use condom everytime.

other wise you are really putting yourself at risk. but any fwb either on the net or not has the same condition.

you can answer this or not just off topic

but what wrong with him not wanting to be your bf....

[Brandye]

What is "FWB?"

[monie]

I was wondering that too but I put together that its Friends With Benefits... lol

I started a thread about this a while ago and there were some good replies, if you wanna check that out:

http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/othe...iends+Benefits

I never went through with it, for a few reasons. I didnt want to ruin our friendship and make things akward in school. Also, I'm more experienced than him, and I was worried about him becoming emotionally attached because I'd be his first for a lot of things... I didnt think that would be fair to him. And I decided that sex and sexual activity is so much more enjoyable and fulfilling if its with someone you're in a relationship with, someone you already love who loves you back.

Just my two cents

[IllDieSmiling]

Hes dtf but I wanna be fwb even though we actually hate each other,lmao Weird I know...so how do we go about doing that I don't want his friends knowing or anybody knowing cuz I don't want them to think I'm a slut because I'm not,but I was seeing one of his friends for a few weeks,and I used to go out with another one of his friends for 5 years....what should we do? cuz we hate each other and Idk if he just wants a onetime dtf or fwb cuz even though I hate him,I wanna be able to have him as a fwb cuz hes kinda my fantasy,I don't want to date him,I just want him as my sex slave basically (to do stuff whenever I please lol) Sooooo what should I do? I never had a fwb before,and I know itll be hard to do when yous hate each other,lol so what are the rules? and please don't think I'm a slut cuz of the friends thing,it was just the way things happened.

[Ducy]

First off...

Post your OWN THREAD.

Second off...

DO NOT USE BOLD, UNDERLINE, ITALICS, COLORED FONT etc.

Its annoying as hell and aggravating to read.

Third...

Get in the right state of mind. You spend half your post trying to "not be a slut". Get to the point.

Fourth....

You hate each other but wanna be fwb? Why? Just use him as a f*** buddy. No emotional attachment AT ALL. Just sex. And be prepared for people to know because if he hates you he probably doesn't care enough to not brag.

[IllDieSmiling]

sorry new to the site..
didn't know it was gunna aggravate people the way it was written,and I copied and pasted my question...chill out,you can be a bit more polite.

But thanks anyway for your feedback.

[EvilEvilKitten]

LOL - no one here is going to be as polite as you feel you'd like so get over that. What we will do is tell you the truth.

Forget the whole slut thing because sluts do not exist - there are only warm, generous women and if someone else has a problem with that - they're not getting any sex.

Your main problem is that you're using all the guys in a certain small group. You shouldn't. Buddies invariably talk. The guys you select should be those without any friends - the loners & the new guys. So, drop the thought of making this guy you hate your sex slave or f***buddy. Move on to 'fresher meat'.

At your age, you should be learning all you can about the gender "male" and not just as sex partners. This requires you to be ADULT about it. Get on BCPS, take control over your life/time/males, and use condoms each and every time.

And keep your heart out of the way. This isn't love - its play.

[Ducy]

Like EEK said, nobody is going to be as polite as you wanted. I am "chill". But there are plenty of stickies that talk about the basics of this site that most people should read before posting.

[IllDieSmiling]

kool now I know. haha