turning a friend 2 a girlfriend

[blooms]

ok so i have a lot of friends that r gurlz nd all but i wanna girlfriend. how do i get past the "were too close 2 b friends" excuse nd turn a friendship into a relationship?

[rockerton]

a better question is whether or not you are looking for a serious relationship. if you are, then all you need to do is find a girl you like. get to know them better. if you're still interested, be persistant but dont go over the top. just be there for her, respect her decisions, and communicate dammit!

if your not looking for a serrious relationship..... dont bother. it will just ruin any friendship you have with the girl(s).

[pokerfan3]

Dude you gotta forget that. The girls have already made thier decesion about you. They put you on thier friends ladder and that's where you're gonna stay. They are not gonna give you any ever. You can't make a girl change how she feels about you either. Sorry to break the news to you man.

[rockerton]

Originally Posted by pokerfan3

Dude you gotta forget that. The girls have already made thier decesion about you. They put you on thier friends ladder and that's where you're gonna stay. They are not gonna give you any ever. You can't make a girl change how she feels about you either. Sorry to break the news to you man.

pretty much^. like i said, unless its really serious (and even then) its probably not gonna happen

[blooms]

ya tru story dude...thx man

[da man]

well thats not totally true. I have lots of friends, that are both male and female, but one of my female friends said she liked me and i was shocked, but i said i don't know. She seemed sad when i told her no, but we are still friends. Nothing has changed.

[champloo]

Originally Posted by rockerton

pretty much^. like i said, unless its really serious (and even then) its probably not gonna happen

BUT, it could happen IF the friend likes him back (in a girlfriend likes/loves boyfriend kind of way)

[blooms]

ok i'm not really tlakin bout that...like i'm talkin bout when u approach a gurl wut r some ways of gettin her 2 like u as a boyfriend instead of as a friend?

[champloo]

ooo i see..

well still, what i said makes sense.

[pokerfan3]

ok yea now i know what you're sayin. That's actually similar to the question i asked in "what girls want" and the answer was confidence. As long as you know you are confident when you appraoch you should get on the A list more often.