Im did now.......... HELP!

[trying to be sweet]

well where to begin I was seeing this guy for about 3 months we went out, great sex the stupid thing I did was not use protection. I dont need a lecture about that I lecture myself everyday anyways im about a month late and really havent talked to the guy well today I was like screw this so I called him to say hi and see where things stand before I spilled the beans about me.... to make a long story short he's sorry he hasnt called me but he's been talking to his ex and he didnt want to confuse himself more..; OMG!!! i could of died now I dont think I want to tell him. Thats the advice Im needing should or shouldnt I? (the end of the conversation he said he'll call me this weekend) HELP!!!!

[wifey]

tell him...he has to know...first, you'll know where you stand with him, if he runs that means he's only with you for fun (i mean you might only just wanted fun...but that's another issue) secondly, if you are pregnant it's his baby too and he should be involved in whatever you decide to do...

my boyfriend's ex aborted their baby. they were in a serious relationship, or so he saw it...to his question why she didn't want to keep it she said she didn't see any future with him and didn't want his baby...you never know your guy might want to be with you but is getting all confused because of the history with his ex and that is what he was trying to tell you. sometimes our exs don't want to let us go when they see us moving on...

[WallyLlama]

You're right; you don't need a lecture. And you need to stop lecturing yourself and accept responsibility for your actions and what you are going to do now. Whether or not to tell him is actually the least of your problems. You don't have the luxury of waiting to see what happens with his ex before dealing with your possible pregnancy - and neither does he.

Get tested, find out for certain whether or not you are, and then start figuring out what you are going to do about it. You've already waited a month.

[wifey]

having thought about it i think wally has a point too.
good luck!

[trying to be sweet]

Thank you for all the advice i appreciate it!!!

[constantlylearning]

Well, I have read this thread and have not noticed what the outcome of the tests were. Any new information trying to be sweet?