I need peoples help

[Always confused]

Alright, I've been told im not very good at making out and i've recently met a girl that i really like and i want to make her happy, so do any of you have any tips on being a better kisser?

[moose_hd]

Practice makes perfect!

Just tell her that you want to start slow so you can get to know her body and learn what she likes. And when it comes time, you should do exactly that. Explore her body, PAY ATTENTION to her reactions, learn where and how she likes to be touched, etc. It is the skill of exploring, paying attention and putting your observations into use that will make you masterful in bed because every woman is different and will be pleased by different things.

If she says no to this, chances are she's overly immature and not worth your time anyway.

[pozzolane]

One thing I know from lots of experience is this:

Go slow!...Don't rush in with mouth wide open tongue flailing! Thats a turn off for the most part. Lips slighty open. And try to find (or match) her technique. Everyone kisses differently. The trick of being a good kisser is learning to quickly adapt to your partners kissing style. And not so much of having a set style of your own. After a short while when you both start getting into it more, it then becomes more appropriate to use tongue. Warm up to it though.

I hope this helps

Cheers.

P

[dancingdoc2]

Have you ever seen a person make a puppet out of his or hand by making a fist and then painting on lips on the side of their fist along with eyes then using their thumb as a mouth? This came to mind when I was thinking about kissing. One great way to learn about kissing is to apply several to yourself by kissing your arm and learning what feels good, and how much pressure to use, etc.

There are some dos and don'ts about actually kissing someone.
* the first is to cock your head or tilt it so you do not meet nose to nose.
* the second is to kiss each other with moist lips. This does not mean soppy lips, just not dry and rough.

It is rediculous to expect a person to know how to kiss or to caress or to fondle another as if it was innate knowledge. We learn by doing and by experimenting and by getting some feedback. I remember as a kid asking my mother who came into my room one night to kiss me goodnight to kiss me like she does daddy. She planted one on the lips and I went "eeuuu...." I'll never do that! That was then, and now things are different. I also remember my first date and first kiss. It wasn't too awkward and although a bit hesitant and pecky, I know she enjoyed it more for the emotional aspect than the feel. (Food for thought.)

* You can plant one squarely on both lips, however, I believe it is nicer to place her upper lip between your closed lips and apply a gentle suction. I also would suggest that when you are kissing a girl for the first time that you not linger. Save lingering for later into the relationship.

A word about French Kissing--

A lot of teens hear about this and want to try it. That's fine, however, it is best reserved for very very intimate moments. The French Kiss means different things to different people with regard to how it is done. The full blown kiss is done with parted lips, an open mouth, and an exchange of breath and saliva while also using the tongue to explore the inside of the other person's mouth. The suggestion here is that it is a hint of what is to come in the form of intercourse. You have to approach this with caution because not everybody wants their partner's salive in their mouth or a tongue probbing around or exchanging breath. So, some discussion beforehand is probably not a bad idea.

Scaling the FK down a bit you and your partner can certainly kiss with parted lips, lick a lip, or suck on a lip.

I hope this is of help. Got questions?

[lakimada]

i had this problem when i was younger, was so put off of it that i became so introverted and never had any kind of affection in years.

but one night at a club some random changed all that, a chick that was into me wanted me to kisss her so, i just went for it, all the style is, go slow open slightly until you lips touch her bottom or top lip, then close and a little gentle suck, then you might want a little tongue not to muchand not too deep. just enough to touch her top lip or maybe just far enough to go past the teeth. i never really had a chick that likes to tongue me which is a bit of a dissapoinment, also another great tip is slide your hand along her neck and caress her check with your thumb and gentle pull her towards you look into her eyes. slightly tilt your head or you can leave it straight.

well thats my take
ever since my break from kissing, and having that first kiss all those years later, i have been told many times i am a pretty good kisser.

[Lonewolf*]

...'slide your hand along her neck and caress her check with your thumb and gentle pull her towards you look into her eyes. '

mmm....that sounds very nice.
I'm not really one for french kissing. Never tried it till my current boyfriend, but I think I jumped into it too fast. Its not that its bad, its just.. I dont know, I always feel like I'm doing something wrong. lol probably am, only he would know

You really want to make her happy?
Like the others said, take it slow. Make sure you're not drooling on her obviously lol. And.. maybe save the tongue for when she teases you with hers? For when you do get to tongue, all you're really trying to do is massage and explore, it shouldnt make you tense, it should be relaxed.

[AptPupil]

Please people, tell me that you all forgot about PASSION. cause without it life would be so unbelievably dull. That feeling in the deepest recesses of your soul, that feeling that when you kiss someone its like its as though you both become one entity.

If you kiss someone passionatly like you truely care for that person and you give your everything to that person in that one kiss (gently) just see what happens.

dont overdo it, do it over and over.

[lakimada]

Originally Posted by AptPupil

Please people, tell me that you all forgot about PASSION. cause without it life would be so unbelievably dull. That feeling in the deepest recesses of your soul, that feeling that when you kiss someone its like its as though you both become one entity.

yes thats a beautiful thing

[confusing myself]

if you really want to please this girl that you really like, then what i think is that you should mix all of these things that the people have said in response. you should gently touch, but go slowly. though not too slow. also try to match her kissing as you go along in the relationship. never forget to have passion in what you do with her because as 'AptPupil' said that life would be unbelievably dull if not for it. I know that im just repeating what everyone said, but i think that it is all true, thats why i am repeating it.

[KyleUtter Lover1]

Yah Go Slow. My boyfriend tells me I am not a good kisser sometimes and I say lets take this slowy because when I am done kissing you I might be a better kisser next time.