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Old 02-03-2006, 06:35 AM
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Should I be with her?

Hi

I've posted a long time ago about a girl who I was into but wasn't into me as much. This was back in may last year.
We agreed to be friends around summer time and have been cool since
Thing is, I met her the other day and asked her about her seeing another guy or anything, which she said she's tried to but she can't really get over this guy. And the way she described him seemed as if she was SOOO into him, mentioning a similar situation to what we had.
She was into him but he was into her more than she was into him but now she regrets it because she realised she really wants him but fears its too late.

As you may have guessed she was talking about me, but I didnt ask her this directly when I met her although I had pretty much figured it out (thinking about it after - it was SO obvious) - she told me through text afterword.
ATM I'm seeing two girls (neither is her) but most of the dates and girls i've hooked up with have been as a sort of coping mechanism because I really believed I was in love with her.

I also think I still am, and up until it became really obvious when she was describing him to me I was a little upset that she had found someone else.

I just don't know what to do right now. I mean, I love her, but the way she texed me was as if she just wanted to try and get over me and this was the first step toward doing so, mentioning it was a farewell text as well as her coming clean.

I haven't replied yet as I'm not sure what I want to say. Should I just let her go even though we both seem to want to be with eachother?
I'm not in too deep with either of the girls I'm seeing and were just casual, so it wouldnt be too hard to explain to either of them.

My heart is telling me I want her, but I'm not sure she will want to now, because she said she's felt this way for a few months now and its made her down, which is why she wants to move past it.
But to be honest if we both want the same thing, could it work?

Another part of me is telling me to let her go and let her get over it, and that it would be selfish for me to admit to her that I still love her and want to be with her, if she IS trying to move on.

I'd just like some positive feedback on this situation if anyone is willing to give it.

Thanks alot.
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Old 02-03-2006, 01:17 PM
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Talk to her and be honest. See how she feels, If she wants to be over it then let her go - it's not worth destroying a friendship over. If she feels the same way as you then you've got no problem, you should enjoy a good relationship (after all the trust is there already). But make absolutely sure that she wants you, and not to be over you before you declare your undying love for her. I've counselled many of my female friends through this very situation, so I know what you mean. At the end of the day, good friends are very hard to come by.
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Old 02-09-2006, 05:35 AM
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Talk and Be Honst With her. I think you maybe you should keep her.
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