whats the deal

[benderover]

this is not a problem just want to know. iv been seperated from my wife of 5 years for 6 months now and she is in a relationship again and im being a bachlar but we still have sex from time to time. well the question is while have sex with other women i can go lond periods with no orgasm sometime not even haveing one. When we first split i had a hard time to even get an erection with other women and no problem with wife. Well when i have sex with ex it only take 5 to 10 min tops somtime just a few min and just give her oralsex to orgasm. As i said its not a problem just weird want to know if anyone knows why?

[Lass]

Simple said, emotions.

[dancingdoc2]

The psychobabble term in the trade is: Performance Anxiety

It is a self fulfilling prophecy in which the more you dwel and ruminate and worry, the worse the problem becomes. The fix: stop worrying.

[confusing myself]

i think that it is that your still physically and emotionally 'tied' per say to your ex's.