am i over thinking this?

[sensitoker]

a few months back a friend i worked with at the time started to come on to me very strong. We hung out, and went on a few dates and really hit it off. or so i thought. i mean though we never "hooked up", she did stay with me one night and we cuddled and talked as we were falling alseep. she even said i made her shiver, in a good way. then a few days later she just seemed so distant...and asked her what was up, and she said that she really liked and admired me, but wasn't interested in you romantically. kind of took me for suprise considering all she had done and said....but whatever, it wasn't that big of a deal. we've bumped into each other several times since at bars or friends houses and just had friendly chat for a few and went our seperate ways. now, several months later she's called me twice to hang out. what gives? why is she calling me now? i mean, while i'm not opposed to just being friends, am i wrong for not wanting to get rejected by the same girl twice? or am i just over-thinking this? i don't know. i was just bored and wanted to rant a little. thanks everyone

[joshuaroto]

man this girl oviously found out she has a thing for u and wants it bad so go give it to her even if it ends up being a one night stand what u got to lose just make sure u show her u got somyhing she wants and make sure u say nothin about last time {"so what made u change ur mind"}

[WallyLlama]

Yeah... you might be overthinking it a little, but I'm also not sure it's wrong to have your guard up a little. Some women enjoy the chase and unintentionally, she could be setting that up again. She could also truly just want to "hang out" with no particular romantic interest... only one way to find out, really.