Does He Like me or is it just for a bj

[B555rian]

ok so recently i have been seeing this guy.. I am a guy and i met an outwardly straight guy in a gay club. he likes guys and girls but does not want anyone to know he likes guys. he seemed really into me and for the first 10 days we knew each other. he called me 5 different nights for me to come and pick him up from the bar hopping he had done earlier with all of his buddies...his buddies do not know that he likes guys and he is in the closet.. i am in the closet as well but every morning when he gets up..after our romp in the hay at my house ..its as if he does not have much to say and he is ashamed of being there...and he wants to get home quick....and he has talked to me only briefly once or twice in the two weeks we have known each other sober. he only calls when he is drunk. does he like me or is it just for sex a bj. he seems nice but you know he is drunk....and i think his true feelings are coming out while he is drunk...but it is hard for him to express himself while sober...
please help with advice ...ANYONE?...any guys do this and can you let me know what you are thinking...thanks.

[Jm33]

I am a girl so in order for me to evaluate the situation I put it into a guy/girl scenario. If a guy only called me when he was drunk and we had sex every time I picked him up then yes i would say he is using you. Sorry but don't go any further so that he can hurt you worse if you think you really like this guy. Or you can ask him why he doesn't talk to you when he is sober?

[Brandye]

Stay away!