her new boyfriend

[crazylove]

I'm not sure if this is where i shuld post this but here goes

i'v recently divorced from my wife of 5 years and we are still great freinds. We have 2 children together so we still se each other alot.

She recently let her new boyfreind move in with her and the kids.
wanting to know about guy being around my kids i did some asking around and found out a few things.

First when they met he was trying to get her drunk so his friend could sleep with her but she didnt like the guy and just not that kind of women. Well when i seen that his friend had no chance he waited till she was unable to walk and toke advantage of her. She told me this herself.

That not all i know a few of his freinds and they told me he siad he wasnt attracted to her at all but that she could offer him alot since he has nothing and no future she could take care of him.

iv tryed to tell this things and she said its not true she has no resone to think he is lieing and that he says he really loves her but i know its bull #$%^

I guess what im asking is for some advise on how to get to believe he is a loser before it goes to far. ill do what ever i need to trickery any thing.

id love to just kick he ass back where he came from but i dont what to rune our relastionship plz help.

[Brandye]

No longer your concern. I understand concern for your kids but unless you can prove she is an unfit mother, you cannot affect this situation. Use your energy to go get laid.

[summerssand24]

Hey...I know you would do anything but look my son's father tried to tell me that my new boyfriend is a looser and the harder he pushes the farther I push HIM away. You need to act like your happy for her. She will settle down and stop being defensive...and she will see the light when everything is said and done...if this guy is a dawg.... just sit back and let him him **** on himself!