Grr, Condoms!

[Clydeski]

Okay, I've only had 2 other girlfriends, and have had sex with both of them. The first one I had to wear a condom because she wasn't taking anything, that was fine. The second I didn't need to wear one because she was on the pill, but I still wore one sometimes so I could last longer, no problem there either. Now, I'm with this new girl, she's amazing. We've been going out for several months now, and we've tryed to have sex. She's on the pill too but she forgets alot so she wants me to wear a condom, that's fine. We get going, and I'm as hard as a rock, but as soon as I put the condom on, I fall over like a slinky. I get frustrated and take it off, but then I'm as hard as a rock again. I get so angry, I don't know what to do. I've never had that problem before. I feel bad for my girlfriend, she's so patient and understanding, but I still want to know what's wrong with me!! Bah!

[moose_hd]

Maybe she should share her "schedule" with you so you can phone her up and remind her at the appropriate times.

And remember, the pill is not 100% effective. My last girlfriend was on the pill and we agreed that a condom would be used when the time came because we didn't want to risk it. (Condoms are not 100% effective either, of course, but condom + pill is better than either one alone.)

[O_Freak]

Had a similar problem. Try different brands. I found the thin ones solved the problem. Get her to help you out. Once it is on stroke you, rub it against her.

[Doodlebug]

Tell her to go on the shot instead of the pill so she doesn't have to remember. You only get a shot once every 3 months and you're covered. Plus, its more effective. Or she could go on the Nuva Ring or the Birth Control Patch.

[Jm33]

Be sure to tell her that the pill will probably make her gain unexpected weight that she won't be able to lose, if you happen to suggest that to her.

[RayzorSharp]

The loss of the momentum of stopping to put the condom on may be what's causing the sudden erection loss. Try getting the condom on as part of foreplay (she could put the condom in her mouth and slide it over you etc) See if that works first. My Fiancee is on the pill, but I still wear condoms - you're better off playing safe.

[demonbuttercup]

Originally Posted by Jm33

Be sure to tell her that the pill will probably make her gain unexpected weight that she won't be able to lose, if you happen to suggest that to her.

thats not always true, plus she's ALREADY on the pill.

[Brandye]

Let me emphasize Demon's post. Most people do not gain weight.

[AptPupil]

Ha Ha, heres something no-ones thaught of.... Viagra! lol. itll work im sure, but i think you should try different brands.

dont overdo it, do it over and over!