Getting on the subject...

[Alex]

ok. im bad at getting to the subject of asking her out.

lemme fill you in. i like her a WHOLE lot. and i know she likes me (imms use a scale) from 50%-80%. shes single, and lonely so my chances are better. plus im her best friend

anyways next weekend, i plan on getting some friends (or just me and her, because i know she wants to hang out w/ me and catch up) and head out to a movie. im not sure what movie yet. eather Hostel or something else (we both wanna see hostel). im going to sit next to her, and after the movie we (just me and her, im going to have my friends go somewhere else if they come) are going to get some food. were going ot eat and talk about stuff. *heres where i need the help* im not that (i can, but im not that good about doing it) good about starting up a subject before asking her out. what should we talk about before i ask her? but after the food and before we leave im goign to (if it all goes rite) ask her out. now this is going to be in the mall, and im not sure if its better to do it after eating, walking around, or waiteing for our rides home.

i know ho we are going to get in the movie (friends older brother) so thats done.

ONE more thing. ive never done this (what im about to say) so it would be helpful to know. should i offer (not sure how im going to do that, advice would be good) to buy her ticket. and for the food im going to say "what do you want? or do you want anything?" then she'll say yes, or no. ill probly just get frys and a drink. and how (again) would i offer to pay for it. ALL of that will only happen if she lets me buy the ticket and food. is that a good idea? or should she just buy it? or just 1 and i buy the other?

-any advoce would be helpful.
thanks

[Alex]

*bump*

anyone??

[Trivium]

(If you want pay for her ticket)Hmmm.. when your waiting in line for the movie, go ahead of her. And just go up to the ticket booth thing, and ask for 2 tickets for Hostel, or whichever movie your seeing. Make sure she hears you say it, dont yell or anything, but kind of watch her to see if she goes to the next ticket booth, or waits for yours. Now, I dont know this girl, so i dont know if she is a freeloader, etc. But, if she does not object to you buying her ticket, i would think of that as a good sign.

(If you want to pay for her food)Im a little confused on the food situation. Not sure if it is a restuarant, or fast food etc. But if it is a restuarant, i would think you would both order your food, eat it, and then the waiter/waitress will bring you your check, and you can just take it, and pay for it. And again, i dont know if she is a freeloader, etc. But, if she does not object, i would think of that as a good sign as well.

If your at a fast food place, i think this could be a bit trickier. But, I would order first, and tell the cashier you and your friend are ordering together. Then, the cashier might say, " And, what do you want? " If your friend does not want you to pay for her, then she will have correct the cashier, and that takes longer. :P haha, i really don't know.

And your question about bringing up the conversatiion about dating, asking her out. Well, im not to good at that either, the last person i asked out already had a boyfriend, kinda awkward since we were friends but she decided to hide that from me. Plus, she was flirting back.. so yeah.. i can't help ya there.